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Déjenme comenzar esto diciendo que de ninguna manera soy un "experto" en tener éxito en All Things Worn, o en el área de kink en general. Todo el conocimiento que compartiré a continuación proviene de mis casi dos años de experiencia únicamente en All Things Worn.

Las experiencias a las que hago referencia a continuación son bien las que he presenciado que otros vendedores atraviesan, o bien las que yo mismo he experimentado. Los temas sobre los que he elegido escribir se basan en problemas que he visto recientemente y preguntas que me hacen con frecuencia. Espero que lo siguiente sirva como una "guía para principiantes" sobre cómo navegar de manera apropiada siendo un vendedor de kinks y fetiches en All Things Worn.

Sobre mí

¡Hola! Mi nombre es Teacherbitch, TeacherB, o Teach. Sí, soy profesor en la vida real. Te sorprendería la cantidad de veces que me han hecho esta pregunta en realidad. Cuando me uní a All Things Worn era completamente nuevo en el mundo del kink y fetichismo, y honestamente, no tenía idea de lo que estaba haciendo.

Era tan convencional que hacía que la vainilla pareciera insípida. Simplemente pensé: "Oh, esto será interesante. Venderé algunas fotos de pies, usaré zapatos hediondos y ganaré algo de dinero extra para gastar". En realidad, he obtenido mucho más de lo que originalmente pretendía. He aprendido a quererme mejor y a abrirme a nuevas experiencias que nunca pensé que probaría antes. Disfruto ser parte de esta comunidad y es por esa razón que he elegido escribir este blog.

Surfear las olas, cariño

Incluso como vendedor que ha estado aquí casi dos años, tendrás períodos LENTOS de tiempo donde parece que nadie está comprando. Usa esos períodos lentos para perfeccionar tu oficio, crear nuevas publicaciones, agregar nuevo contenido a tu Google Drive y simplemente usa este tiempo para conectar con otras personas y conocer a tus posibles compradores. El mundo de los kinks y fetichismos es más que solo el artículo o la experiencia que se vende. Se trata de la conexión humana y la intimidad.

Cuando esté lento, hagas lo que hagas, no te compares con los demás. Ellos también tendrán sus momentos lentos, solo que podrían no ser al mismo tiempo que los tuyos, y es posible que no publiquen al respecto en el panel de control. No estás haciendo nada mal, así que no te lo tomes de forma personal. Solo sigue adelante. Usa este tiempo para la auto-reflexión. ¿Qué puedes hacer mejor? ¿Qué cosa nueva puedes ofrecer? ¿En qué puedes mejorar?

Este es un trabajo duro. Es agotador, mental y físicamente. Te sentirás quemado. Incluso podrías sentirte deprimido y ansioso en ocasiones. Podrías culpar a los períodos lentos por tu cuenta y pensar que has hecho algo mal. Yo he sentido TODO esto. Así que, durante esos tiempos lentos, no solo tomes tiempo para trabajar en tu página y publicaciones, sino toma tiempo para ti mismo. Date un descanso. Ve a pasar tiempo con amigos, familia, etc. Desconéctate por el día, una semana, un mes, el tiempo que necesites, y cuida a la persona más importante: TÚ.

La Actitud de Ventas "Bluebird Sales"

Si recién te unes y esperas que esto sea una "forma fácil de conseguir dinero", te sugiero que te ahorres el tiempo y la angustia y te vayas ahora. Está perfectamente bien si estás aquí simplemente para ganar dinero, y no te estoy diciendo que te vayas por malicia. Es un compromiso enorme y no quiero que desperdicies tu tiempo y energía si no estás listo para darlo todo.

Recientemente me encontré con un término coloquial usado en el mundo de las ventas que creo que se aplica aquí: la actitud de las "ventas Bluebird". ¿Qué significa eso? Un "bluebird" es una venta inesperada, increíblemente rentable. O, en esencia, una oportunidad que cae en tu regazo, con poco o ningún esfuerzo.

Como he dicho antes, esto no es fácil. Puede que se vuelva más fácil a medida que pasa el tiempo, pero nunca será realmente fácil. Me llevó tres semanas hacer mi primera venta y desde entonces, todavía he tenido que seguir en ello.

¿Quieres tener éxito? Crea tu propia marca. Sé único. Sé creativo. No copies y pegues la biografía de otro vendedor y sus publicaciones. Inspírate, pero no seas un mimo. Aunque pueda parecer un halago, es mucho más halagador cuando envías mensajes directamente a los vendedores pidiendo consejo o haciéndoles saber que te encanta su idea de publicación o su biografía. Queremos ayudarte. Cuando tú mejoras, mejora la experiencia para todos nosotros. Tomar información de las páginas de otros hace que parezcas deshonesto y como si no quisieras poner el trabajo duro, el esfuerzo y el tiempo interminables que se necesitan para satisfacer a tus compradores y tener éxito.

Personalmente no cobro nada por el consejo a los vendedores y hay muchas mujeres encantadoras con guías para vendedores disponibles en sus páginas a muy bajo costo o gratuitas. Tengo un gran respeto por aquellos que tienen el valor de exponerse y pedir ayuda cuando la necesitan. Es algo con lo que luché para hacer en mi vida personal.

Cuando eliges hacerse pasar por otro vendedor, al final, solo te estás perjudicando a ti mismo. No poner tu propio trabajo y esfuerzo en tu página compromete tu integridad y da la impresión de que tampoco dedicarás tiempo y esfuerzo al preparar los pedidos de tus compradores. Al final del día, los compradores te eligen no solo por los artículos o contenido que tienes para ofrecer, sino por tu propia personalidad única y las vibras que emanas. Así que, SÉ TÚ.

Educa es Let me preface this by stating that I am by no means an “expert” on being successful on ATW, or in the area of kink in general. All of the knowledge I will be sharing below has come from my almost two years of experience solely on ATW.

The experiences I reference below are either ones I’ve witnessed other sellers go through or ones I have experienced myself. The topics I’ve chosen to write about are based on issues I have seen recently and questions I am asked frequently. I hope the following will serve as a “beginner’s guide” for how to appropriately navigate being a kink and fetish seller on ATW.

About Me

Hi there! My name is Teacherbitch, TeacherB, or Teach. Yes, I am a teacher in real life. You’d be shocked by the number of times I’m actually asked this question. When I first joined ATW I was brand new to the kink and fetish world, and honestly, I had no idea what I was doing.

I was so vanilla, I made vanilla tasteless. I just thought, “Oh, this will be cool. I’ll sell some foot pics, wear some stinky shoes, and earn some extra spending money.” In reality, I have gained so much more than what I originally intended. I’ve learned to love myself better and open myself to new experiences I never thought I would try before. I enjoy being a part of this community and it is for that reason I have chosen to write this blog.

Ride the Waves, Baby

Even as a seller who has been here almost two years, you will have SLOW periods of time where it seems like no one is buying. Use those slow periods to perfect your craft, create new listings, add new content to your Google Drive, and just use this time to connect with other people and get to know your potential buyers. The world of kink and fetishes is more than just the item, or the experience being sold. It’s about human connection and intimacy.

Whenever it’s slow, whatever you do, don’t compare yourself to others. They will have their slow times too, they just might not be at the same time as yours, and they might not post about it on the dash. You’re not doing anything wrong, so don’t take it personally. Just keep at it. Use this time to self-reflect. What’s something you can do better? What’s something new you can offer? What can you improve upon?

This is hard work. It’s exhausting, mentally and physically. You will feel burned out. You may even feel depressed and anxious at times. You may blame the slow periods on yourself and think that you’ve done something wrong. I have felt ALL of these. So, during those slow times, don’t just take time to work on your page and listings, but take time for yourself. Give yourself a break. Go spend time with friends, family, etc. Log off for the day, a week, a month, however long you need, and take care of the most important person: YOU.

The “Bluebird Sales” Attitude

If you’re just joining and expecting this to be an “easy cash grab,” I suggest saving yourself the time and heartache and leaving now. It’s perfectly fine if you’re here simply to make money, and I’m not telling you to leave out of malice. This is a huge commitment and I don’t want you to waste your time and energy if you’re not ready to give it your all.

I came across a slang term used in the sales world recently that I think applies here - the “Bluebird Sales” attitude. What does that mean? A “bluebird” is an unexpected, incredibly profitable sale. Or, essentially, an opportunity that just falls into your lap, with little to no effort.

As I’ve stated before, this is not easy. It may get easier as time goes on, but it will never truly be easy. It took me three weeks to make my first sale and ever since then, I have still had to keep at it.

Want to be successful? Create your own brand. Be unique. Get creative. Don’t copy and paste a fellow seller’s bio and listings. Be inspired, but don’t be a mime. While it may seem like flattery, it is so much more flattering when you message sellers directly asking for advice, or letting them know you love their listing idea or their bio. We WANT to help you. When you do better, it makes the experience for all of us better. Taking information from others’ pages makes you seem disingenuous and like you don’t want to put in the never-ending hard work, effort, and time it takes to satisfy your buyers and be successful.

I personally don’t charge anything for seller’s advice and there are lots of lovely ladies with seller's guides available on their pages at little to no cost. I have massive respect for those that have the courage to put themselves out there and ask for help when they need it. It’s something I struggle to do in my personal life.

When you choose to impersonate another seller, in the end, you’re only hurting yourself. Not putting your own work and effort into your page compromises your integrity and gives off the impression that you will also not put in the time and effort when preparing your buyers’ orders. At the end of the day, buyers pick you not just for the items or content you have to offer, but for your own unique personality and the vibes you give off. So, BE YOU.

Educate Yourself About The World of Kink

Before engaging in ANY kind of kink or fetish make sure you do the research, especially if you’re new to all of it. Do not offer an experience you know nothing about, even if you see others offering it.

For example, the humiliation kink. I’m writing about this one in particular because I feel like it’s something I’m well-known for on ATW. It was not something I offered when I first came to ATW, mainly because I didn’t understand anything about it. Humiliation content is more than just “being mean” and calling people “losers.” There are so many nuances to humiliation and aftercare you have to provide that I could probably write an entirely separate blog about it. AND, just because the buyer states they’re into humiliation in their bio, in a post, etc. doesn’t mean you should approach them right away with it. You shouldn’t be giving those experiences away for free anyways.

Don’t be afraid to ask your buyers what they enjoy about their kinks and fetishes. Just because one person might like toxic-smelling socks, doesn’t mean the next buyer will. I don’t have any specific sites to suggest for doing your research, but I can tell you that Google will be your best friend, as well as watching and observing more experienced sellers engaging in the kinks you’re interested in offering. I’ve even had other sellers ask to purchase my content to use as a “study guide” for their own content. I think that is so responsible and admirable.

Every single experience provided on ATW should be consensual. That means not addressing everyone on the dash as “piggy idiots,” demanding someone pay your bills or sending unsolicited nudes, whether you’re a buyer OR a seller. Consent is, and always will be, sexy.

Bait Posts, Scammers, & No Intention to Buy

You see a post on the dash. It’s from a buyer asking, “What if, blah blah blah, did this, what would you do?” NOPE. STOP RIGHT THERE. This right here is a great example of a bait post. This “buyer” is more than likely looking to engage in free kinky chat with you, especially if they are a brand new buyer, whether it be through comments on a post, answering a poll question, or messages. Think of it as free sexting. Would you provide sexting for free? Hopefully, your answer is no.

Here are some examples of bait posts and/or messages I’ve run across since I’ve been here:

The Troll: These ones are pretty obvious. Instead of engaging with the troll’s banter, report and block. They’re looking for that attention, whether it be negative or positive. Doesn’t matter to them. It’s tempting as hell to play along, but don’t do it. Report the abuse and block.
The Pity Partier: Brand new buyer complaining about how people are being rude to them, or won’t sell to them? There’s probably a reason why.
The Sugar Daddy: “Hey Baby, message me on Snap, Kik, Telegram, etc. and I’ll pay you $1,000 every week.” First of all, when in your life have you ever gotten anything for free? NOTHING in life is free. Also, there should be absolutely no reason for you to go off-site unless a purchase has already been made. Even then, I would never share off-platform communication unless it was with a trusted buyer I have worked with for quite a while. These “buyers” are always scammers. There are no true “sugar daddies” on ATW. Sometimes, they’ll even start the message with “hi, how are you?” or “where are you from?” to seem legit. Don’t fall for it.
The Persistent Poster: If the buyer just joined and is posting over and over again within a short amount of time, mentioning different requests despite numerous offers, they’re just getting off to the free attention. You’ll even see them delete the post they made before and repost minutes later in order to avoid suspicion.
The Rick Astley: If you have already gone through almost two pages of messages and the buyer is dodging your mentions of payment, he is never gonna pay up. Almost all of the buyers I’ve worked with have known what they wanted straight away and paid almost immediately, or at least within 24 hours. Of course, there are special circumstances where a buyer might ask to pay on a specific day. In order to avoid disappointment, I won’t create the order until the day they intend to pay. Saves yourself time and the buyer a 1-star review if they decide to change their mind.
The Intentionally Indecisive: If you ask a buyer what they’re interested in and they say something like, “anything,” or they’re “looking for ideas,” or “what’s the grossest thing you have to offer?” they’re just looking for free kinky chat. I’ve always redirected these people to my listings to pick out what they like and every single time they’ve stopped responding after that. These “buyers” never buy anything.
The Picture Before Purchase: “I need to see proof or a preview before I purchase.” This person is not going to buy. No matter how many reviews or purchases he has. Don’t give them the satisfaction of free content. Just. Don’t. Never have I ever given away previews or freebies and it led to

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