Buyer
I came for the kink but fell in love with the community. I've met the most extraordinary sellers on this site, and I am forever grateful for their willingness to share their bodies, clothes, and other items--and more importantly their spirits, the essence of who they are. I want to remind buyers that these sellers have put tremendous effort, and courage, in creating their shops and content, and should be treated with great respect and appreciation.
Thankfully the horrible experiences I've had with some sellers are few and far between.
If I'm looking through your shop, I'm considering purchasing something, not lurking. Since you're able to see who visits your shop, if i didn't message you, I'm not interested, plain and simple. Messaging me afterwards is not going to change my mind.