Just a bit about myself, I’m 57, been alone for 16yrs after 10 glorious years married to a wonderful woman. Outwardly it’s obvious I’m different, I don’t cross dress but I do have to wear a bra.
I have gynaecomastia, it is actually a result of a condition called Klinefelter Syndrome (KS) this was diagnosed when I was 15 and started developing female breasts. By the mid 80s I had developed to a C cup. KS is a chromosome abnormality. I have XXY chromosomes, I have an extra female chromosome (X)
This caused no growth in puberty of my testicles and to a degree my penis too.
My testosterone production is only about 5% hence oestrogen and progesterone become the dominant hormones . This obviously caused my breasts to grow and develop like a woman. It also made me infertile and (please excuse my wording) my penis to be very small. It’s only 1 inch and if I do get erect only about 2 inches. Erectile dysfunction has been more common than not throughout my life.
My ex wife was so supportive in all aspects of my condition, boobs, bras, breast care etc and also accepting and patient and supportive regarding my male genitalia and inadequacy but I had to give her the divorce she wanted so she could realise her needs as a woman and to be a mother. I owed her that much.
I don’t get any ‘kicks’ from wearing a bra, it’s just for need and having to just like you do as a woman. I don’t really think anymore about wearing one than women do, its just a daily thing I do. I know all about wearing a bra just like you ladies including the pitfalls and problems that go with it! Men just don’t understand!!! I do also wear women’s knickers as because of my underdeveloped genitalia male pants do not fit and are too baggy at the front! Again, it’s not for kicks but necessity and practicality.
I’m not a freak though many would think so. It’s just a normal thing for me wearing a bra as it would be for a woman though I unfortunately have to be more aware of hiding it as best you can anyway given my breasts are prominent so it’s obvious really but I have to try. People I find never think it’s from a need to wear one but for more seedy reasons. That hurts but I try to understand that’s what people think.
Since my divorce I’ve found my place as a sub sissy and know now that’s where I belong. I am also a virgin due to my condition.
Thank you for listening
Always respectfully
bobbi
X
United Kingdom
