By LeonaDeFuego 564 views
You’d be hard pressed to get me to believe that for most dilemmas or endeavors in life, the wisdom of Star Wars won’t provide the answer. Star Wars is so timeless (and perfect) because it speaks to the nature of the human experience, the good and evil in all of us, the intoxicating temptation of power and greed, the redemptive transformation that compassion and forgiveness offer us and the undeniable Force that comes from kindness and goodwill.
So let’s indulge our inner nerds in galactic measure and draw some advice for Buyers from not just the best-known Star Wars sages – Yoda (my hero), Obi Wan and Skywalker – but also from ladykiller flyboys like Han and Lando, other less prominent characters and even from Darth Vader.
Enjoy! And may the Force be with you!
So you’ve finally decided to scratch that itch you’ve had for years and join a panty selling site. Congratulations! You’re in for quite an amazing ride! This site has thousands of beautiful, amazing Sellers you’re going to absolutely LOVE! If you’ve had shame or embarrassment about your deepest desires that has held you back from coming here sooner or from enjoying the things that give you pleasure, I am so very happy that you’ve let your inner wisdom about the validity of your makeup speak up and are allowing yourself to be more of who you really are. It’s liberating, and it’s so valuable for your mental health and your relationship with yourself. Your desires and kinks are valid. If some of the world or the people in your life don’t accept them, I am sorry to hear this. Here, you get to be your wonderful self and get exactly what you desire, and that’s a beautiful thing. I for one hope that all your wishes come true.
You’re here! The candy shop has more treats than you could possibly ever need or want, so go get those yums! I see a lot of Buyers create profiles and never make a purchase. I even have Buyers never respond to my offer that of a complimentary treat with no strings attached (read my bio to find the perk I offer). It baffles me. You’re on a panty/content/experience selling site, so buy something! Get those hands and other appendages wet, darling!
I know there is choice overload on this site. It’s the nature of the beast. If you find you’re not getting your wishes met because you’re stuck on considering the myriad of options available to you, I’m here to give you a loving but firm push off the ledge: buy something! Anything! There’s no best pair of panties or sexting or cam session out there - there are many, many fantastic ones! And yes, there might be some purchases that don’t live up to your hopes, but at least you took action on your desires and got something. You’ll be armed with knowledge that helps you narrow your choices down a little more on your next purchase.
From the heart words of appreciation, whether they come in a message, a post-purchase review or both are like gold to many of us Sellers. Hopefully you’re hearing lots of appreciation and getting fantastic reviews from us as well. And maybe you’re even receiving more than words to express appreciation, like complimentary photos or little extras with your purchases. How fortunate you are. Thank the Sellers that go the extra mile genuinely and be willing to go the extra mile for them too. Take the time to write a detailed review, use the Follow button or do a shout out on the Dashboard about Sellers you really like. And remember, the shared narrative doesn’t have to close. If you find Sellers that fulfill your dreams, that you trust and that you value and admire, keep showing them your patronage and enjoy seeing that relationship and mutual satisfaction grow.
If you’re communicating with a Seller and are not clear on a response to a question you have, don’t be afraid to ask for clarification. Most Sellers are happy to help you understand your options and what they offer, or to entertain a unique or kinky request. While our beauty and confidence may be disarming, you’re a consumer with a right to ask questions.
If you get rude responses or pressure from a Seller (and rude treatment isn’t your kink), remember that you have lots of other options to choose from here and you don’t have to work with people who don’t treat you with respect. It’s also reasonable to set boundaries and tell a Seller that you don’t like how they’re communicating with you and that you’ll be seeking services elsewhere. In cases where the perceived slight was a misunderstanding, stating how you’re feeling can get you and your lovely back on the right path to making each other happy. If your perception was correct, you’re doing yourself a favor by changing course and you might be doing the Seller a favor with your feedback, so don’t be afraid to politely give it. And don’t be afraid to use the Block button if a Seller continues to be abusive.
If you’re getting a bad vibe about an interaction or a Seller, I’m a firm believer in listening to your intuition. As mentioned above, it’s probably listening to your gut that got you here, right? As much as I’d like to believe that all of us Sellers are true to our word and provide impeccable services and follow through, sadly, this is not always the case. If someone doesn’t seem trustworthy, following your gut could save you heartache and money down the drain. Since you have so many other options available, don’t hesitate to do what seems best when something doesn’t seem to be passing the smell test.
That said, give us Sellers the benefit of the doubt and avoid being pushy. None of us are quitting our day jobs and getting rich here, especially with such a big pool of Sellers on the site, and apart from our jobs we have partners, families, friends, and hobbies. Don’t expect a Seller to be able to respond to your message right away all the time. If you see that the Seller is online and hasn’t responded to your message, don’t freak out and draw the conclusion that they’re ignoring you. I for my part keep the site open and appear as ‘online’ all the time. That’s because I’m too lazy to close the window and reopen it later. Similarly, I at times see a Buyer’s message while I’m busy or on a quick work break but by no means have the time to give him the response he deserves at that moment. So be patient and understand that no one is here to serve you at all hours. Life hack: practice perception-tasking: coming up with alternate explanations for what you observe that may help you develop a more patient perspective as well as higher empathy in general.
While I might beg to differ on this one in some arenas (lol), fortunately this is an online community that offers relative anonymity, especially to Buyers. When I am communicating with a Buyer and sending him sexy content or my wares, in my mind’s eye he’s the handsomest hunk of my dreams worshipping me and my scent. So don’t be afraid to feel that confidence of a dashing young specimen, even if you don’t find that the real world treats you that way. …That said, don’t be pompous, bro. The Buyers I like the least are the ones full of ego that make me feel objectified every time they call me ‘baby’ or ‘honey’. They don’t last long in my inbox, believe me. Now, if your kink is humiliation this advice might not fit for you, but I know for some it will be advice that significantly boosts their pleasure here.
Follow through on your requests for purchases, and please inform the Seller if you’ve decided to go a different direction. Don’t start an inquiry about a purchase if you’re not honestly interested and able to buy. Sellers’ top two pet peeves are Buyers who take up their time with no intention to buy and Buyers who try to get them to give something for nothing. This is a selling site, and Sellers work hard here. Respect our hard work, time, and talent by only making serious inquiries. And for Pete’s sake, if you see that a Seller’s prices are out of your budget, don’t make an inquiry in the first place! Now, if an interaction has already begun about an item that you realize you can’t afford, gently let her know that you can’t afford what she offers and go look elsewhere – don’t ghost her. And never try to talk a Seller down to a lower price. She deserves what she is asking for her services.
KNOW YOUR BUDGET and be realistic about it. It takes self-control, but pre-determining what you can afford to spend on a given month will help you make better decisions that ultimately benefit you by encouraging you to be discerning about where and how you spend your hard-earned money. Remember that you can’t have everything – that’s life, baby. You’ll see many offerings you want. It’s up to you to decide what you can afford and whether you want to dedicate your budget to one/a few regular Sellers that you develop relationships with or seek variety and working with an ever-changing pool of Sellers.
I’m sad to say that there are many Buyers here who don’t have any intention to buy or that want to get a Seller’s attention, time and even content for free. While I know this isn’t your case, dear one, maybe sometimes you’re tempted to be this way. Please don’t. Understand that selling here takes a lot of hard work and time, and that has value. Honor that value and respect the human behind the Seller profile. Also know that if you are a time waster, sooner or later – usually sooner – a good Seller is going to perceive that and cut you off and have negative feelings about you. And who wants that karma?
If you feel a Seller has gone above and beyond in her service and attention, send her a tip. You do it at the coffeeshop and at restaurants automatically. Why not do it here when there truly is a high level of service and care provided. And help out the Sellers you adore in ways that don’t cost you a thing with shout outs on the Dashboard about your happiness with their services, content or outrageously amazing scent.
Remember that there’s a human behind every profile, Seller or Buyer, and honor and respect the person, no matter how short or long your interaction is with them. If you are treated with disrespect, be the better person and don’t tarnish your own character and karma by sinking to their level. Simply move on to better pastures and don’t be afraid to use the Block button to keep them off your vibe henceforth.
And above all, enjoy the shit out of all the beauty and red (pink?)-hot dripping offerings you’ll find here!
Check out my sister blog to this: The Panty Selling World According to Star Wars - for Sellers to get a glimpse into what it’s like for us here and what some of our common cares and concerns are.MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU!
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