How to Create a Relationship Between a Used Panty Buyer and Seller

Seller Tips For Sellers How to Create a Relationship Between a Used Panty Buyer and Seller

Why do you feel having a bond with a buyer is important?

Selling for me is more than a mere transaction, it is something intimate you are sharing with that buyer. Being intimate is not always physical; it can come in various forms, to open up and share something with someone is an intimate act in itself.

Another reason I take the time to build bonds is it makes the whole experience more personal. The buyer can enjoy the item so much more knowing it has been worn with enjoyment. It makes the anticipation of receiving the item even sweeter.

My relationships with my subs

A Domme/sub relationship is very important to me. Having someone hand over the control and even a degree of power to me is a responsibility on my behalf. I ensure that my subs are taken care of, that they have a say and feel safe.

Building these kinds of relationships is what makes the whole thing work in my opinion. This is why I won’t just allow anyone to serve me. Like any type of relationship, it is a 2-way street, both parties have to be satisfied, happy and get something out of it.

Having that connection allows my subs to be truly honest and open, it gives them opportunities to explore with someone they trust, it is important not to rush the relationship and let things flow naturally, taking small steps and building your confidence as a sub.

It is a 2 way street

When I say it is a 2-way street I mean I want the buyers to put the effort in that I do, I feel that there is a misconception that what sellers get out of it is just the money and that maybe we don’t want to care about the effort as long as we are paid. Although I can’t and wouldn’t speak on behalf of other sellers for me personally that is far from true.

What do I get from it?

As a seller I cherish my relationship with my buyers and I get a lot out of it. I am still learning and exploring things myself.

The whole experience is so much better and more exciting for me if I get on well with my buyers but I think what I gain most is the feeling of satisfaction, knowing I have helped someone enjoy themselves in whatever way I can. It is such a nice feeling that I can make a buyer happy in whatever way I can. When someone tells me they feel comfortable with me or they are able to open up to me and I can see you grow in confidence and I have helped with that I can’t put into words how amazing that feels.

What about selling to someone you don’t bond with?

I don’t limit selling to just those who I get on with in terms of having a bond/relationship with. I appreciate all buyers are different and I would never assume that you all want the same thing. All that I ask is that I am treated with respect and manner. Bond or no bond if someone is rude to me I won’t sell to them.

Both parties get something out of it

Buying and selling is an experience and no two buyers and sellers are the same, I have learned a lot from buyers.

It is like a new adventure for me with each new buyer

I get the pleasure from helping you, I get excited, I get to try new things and new ideas

For example if you buy a pair of panties from me, the minute you hold them in your hand and take a sniff and taste it is like you own a part of me but they are not just some panties that you could have bought online or from a shop yourself like they are new out the packet, you know they have been worn with love and pleasure.

Everyone gains from the experience

Building bonds and relationships help make me a better seller

I am always learning, whether it is about a new kink or fetish, what buyers want and enjoy, what they are looking for and so on and it is important to me to keep learning. I want to ensure I offer nothing but the best to the buyers and a lot of what I learn is from having conversations with buyers.

It is also a chance to get to know and meet some wonderful people. Buyers have helped me not just by buying but by offering advice and support. But by providing honesty and sharing a connection you open up to me and help me do all this.

Relationships with other sellers

I wanted to include this, yes this blog is aimed at the lovely buyers but all relationships and bonds are important to me because we are part of a community.

I have said before how selling used panties can be lonely and tough so the relationships that are formed can really help you through. There are days when you need that support, every time I have needed some support I have been overwhelmed by it. It gives me such a boost and that is why I will always support my fellow ladies.

The community is what it is because we have all worked together

I have met some wonderful ladies, you are incredible and I thank you for all you have done and continue to do for me.

I want to end by saying thank you to the buyers who have purchased from me, supported me, given me advice and support and shown me respect. Thank you also for supporting my fellow ladies and the site.

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