How to Create Tasks That Bring Subs to Their Knees

Seller Dom/sub Tips For Sellers How to Create Tasks That Bring Subs to Their Knees

I’ve been a sex worker for the past 7 years and have had the pleasure of being on ATW for two months at the time of writing. Without a doubt, one of my favourite ways to work with people (as well as one of my most hotly requested services) is tasks whether that be through ownership or a specific task package.

If you’re looking at working with buyers this way or are already working with buyers this way and want to take your tasks to the next level here’s my advice to bring your subs, slaves and sissies to their knees.

Before you get started:

Price accordingly

At minimum, the recommendation from price guides such as TidalWave679’s is $10 USD per task and if my tasks are purchased as a bundle they sit around this mark depending on a few factors. My long-term relationships are more customised prices as it requires a lot more communication and time.

When pricing factor in the time it takes to get to know them, to come up with the tasks, to collect evidence and check in for punishments if necessary and any aftercare. The timing that goes into creating tasks is why I generally prefer to have people complete my sub application and apply to work with me on an ongoing basis. This serves both you and your sub/slave/sissy as you get the opportunity to learn more about them on a much deeper level.

This paid application is a thorough set of questions that gives me an insight into who they are and the best ways for us to work together. Following this I have all the information I need to open a dialogue and agree on a weekly number of tasks, rules and responsibilities as opposed to individual tasks, which is a much shorter time frame. I rarely do one-off tasks, however I do do ‘sets’ of 3 or 5 tasks.

Remember pricing appropriately is in everyone’s best interests as it ensures you have the time to carry out your duty of care. Feeling poorly compensated can lead to resentment or rushing the experience.

What type of tasks should you create?

Get to know them

One of the best ways to create tantalising tasks is by getting to know who you’re working with. Everyone’s kinks, limits and requirements are different which is why your tasks should be unique and customised to the person you are working with.

There are few things that bring me more pleasure than receiving a message from a sub or slave afterwards saying this is the first time they’ve experienced X task or how blown away they were by the experience.

This step can truly uplevel the experience for everyone. So after you’ve received payment take 5-10 minutes to get to know these crucial details:

Hard limits

Are they a sl*t, sub, c*nt?

Knowing what names you will use can be integral to the experience. Once I worked with someone who was comfortable with all the terms I used above but was not comfortable with “loser”. You don’t know what someone’s limits are until you ask and if I’d have unknowingly used the word loser that could have thrown that person’s whole experience off.

Is there some aspects of their kinks that are off-limits?

It also goes without saying that YOU should have your own hard limits and boundaries and stick to these no matter what amount of money you are offered.

I am extremely kink friendly and so far have never had a sub request something that I wasn’t happy to provide. But if I did have someone ask me to do something that I wasn’t comfortable with I could very easily say no and let them find someone else. Remember there are two people in the experience and you must consider both parties with every decision you make.

Kinks

Foot b*tch? Money slave? Toilet sl*t?

What gets them going?

Some people are reluctant to tell you too many details because they don’t want to give you the tasks themselves. That’s fine! You just need a few details to go off and the most important thing is that you know what they are absolutely NOT comfortable with.

Constraints

This can be easily missed but it’s so important to check in before you get started.

Are they available to complete the tasks right now?
What time is it where they are?
Do they live with anyone which could limit their tasks to certain rooms or parameters?
Do they have somewhere they need to be in the next 20 minutes, 30 minutes or hour?

Another thing that can be helpful is if they need accessories/props etc. to complete the task getting them to lay these out before beginning. That way you will know before being in the throes of a session and having to disrupt the construct in order to work around their constraints.

Creating & Completing Tasks

Task categories

Tasks can be centered around, but not limited to:

Torture & CBT
Forced bi
Humiliation (public and personal)
Degradation
Forced feminisation
Worship
Feet
Sexual
Financial tasks (spending, controlling and sending)

Note when doing public humiliation ensure this is done legally, safely and consensually for all parties involved. I.e. public written or censored image humiliation on ATW - a kink-based platform, as opposed to exposing themselves on the street or doing sexual activities in public which is illegal.

Coming up with tasks

Now you should have all the information you need to create some incredible tasks, what comes next is all down to your creativity coupled with your experience. Here are some extra things to bear in mind:

Avoid using generic task lists you can find on the internet, if you can find them so can they and that’s not what you’re being paid for
Pay attention to time
Always ask for evidence of the task completion

Getting evidence

I always ask my subs and slaves to send evidence that they have completed tasks in the form of photos or in some cases videos. This ensures that tasks are done to my liking and that they are actually done at all! It also helps them to drop into the experience and adds anticipation wondering if I’m going to deem their efforts suitable.

My subs and slaves know that I’m a strict Goddess and that’s exactly why they love me. But I am always strict within the confines that we have previously agreed upon. Although I will push people to their edges, consent is at the heart of all my relationships and I do genuinely love these dynamics.

Final thoughts

As you can see there are many things to consider that go into creating tasks, but there’s a lot to love and learn inside of this process. Remember to price your services accordingly and get to know the person on the other side of the screen.

That’s it for this blog post.

With love from Eve x

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