By EmilyArrowPleases
1597 views 2nd Jul 2025
I was diagnosed with ADHD in May 2023. It was an amazing day because everything finally started to make sense to me.
For so long, I had traits that I just chalked up to being a “crazy girl,” but now they had a name. What a feeling! I wasn’t just crazy—I mean, I was—but now I could tell you why.
In April 2024, my therapist recommended sex work. They initially suggested another well-known site, but after doing my own research, I came across ATW. I joined for free, looked around, and immediately felt at home.
It was incredible to join such an amazing community, and I was blown away by how quickly I was included. It took a few months, but as I built up reviews, I got busier. Then, out of nowhere… I was booked for panties months in advance!
As someone who struggles with organization and staying focused, I had to develop processes that worked for me.
Here are a few:
I schedule my wears in my everyday calendar. I check this app daily to track past, current, and future wears. I also include the name, style, and length of wear in the title for quick reference, which helps me provide tentative dates to buyers.
This is a big one for me! Since I’m not always regular, it’s helpful to have a ballpark idea of when “shark week” is coming. Plus, ovulation panties are a hot item, so tracking my cycle helps me plan ahead.
I grab the ordered panties and place them in an envelope on my shelf. As time goes by, I gradually add any goodies I include I.e. stickers, tengas, cards. I organize my shelf to match my calendar lineup, so I always know exactly which panty comes next.v
I make my order as descriptive as possible, clearly stating the main items and outlining expectations for both myself and the buyer. This way, I can always reference my orders and never forget important details.
I own a label printer, so I purchase and print my labels in advance. This saves me time in the morning when I drop off packages.
Invest!!! Above all else, invest in yourself & invest in your Business
Since joining, I’ve invested in a few key items that save me time, keep my panties fresh, and help me stay organized.
Buying in bulk usually means discounts, and we love saving money!
Want to Go the Extra Mile? If you’re as extra as me, here’s a pro tip:Invest in a ring light, tripod, selfie remote, backdrop holder, and backdrops! Since I don’t show my face, these items help elevate my photos and make them look even more professional.
I hope this blog reaches at least one person and helps them succeed on this site. Thank you all—I love you all. Happy selling!
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