I Can’t Promise Selling Will Be Easy, But It Will Be Worth It!

Seller Motivational I Can’t Promise Selling Will Be Easy, But It Will Be Worth It!

I don’t remember a time when I have sat and been proud of something I have accomplished. To be honest with you, I haven't accomplished much. Yes, I'm a mum and of course, I'm proud of them. But when was the last time you took a step back and did something just for you?

Ask Yourself, How And Why Did You End Up Here?

I think the “why” in that question is the most important bit as it’s what gives us our drive, our meaning as to doing the things we do, in any aspects of our lives.

Let me give you a little bit of background information on me. I live on the opposite side of the country to my family and friends. A few years ago I started a clothing company so I had more lenient hours being at home. It was doing well. I was shipping internationally but the system I needed for the website was far too expensive. My reason why at the time, is as a single parent I needed the income but I needed the time and flexibility more.

Through doing the clothing, as I was modelling them myself I was continuously getting requests for my used panties, which makes me laugh every time I think about it because I heard in my younger years you could sell them online and I never believed it! How wrong was it? This wasn't on a site like this, it was more a private request as I didn’t know sites like All Things Worn actually existed and I wish I did! Now my “why” is because I enjoy it, because I need the income, because I am lonely and I enjoy the company of everyone here. I have so many reasons why my list could go on.

What Have I Learnt From This? Are You Looking To Make This a Permanent Thing?

To me, what I would personally stress the most is finding your niche. Yes, we are here to sell our used panties and socks, but this place is so much more than that. All Things Worn is a place where both us sellers and buyers are free to express ourselves. This is the place beyond the exterior we put up in our day to day lives where we are free to be our true selves, our kinkiest self. Without any shame or fear of judgement. That’s what makes this place so great!

I love masturbation and I’m pretty sure you all know it because I plaster it over my page, videos, photo sets, custom and pre-made. I enjoy expressing my sexuality and trying new things that push my comfort zone, because believe it or not. I’m actually shy, I have anxiety, spouts of depression, such a huge fear of being misinterpreted the wrong way. Here I don’t have that, I am accepted. You are accepted. We are all accepted for who we are. Be you, do what you want to do (following the rules obvs) and that's what’ll make you stand out. Don’t be afraid to express who you’re or what you enjoy.

Consistency Is Key!

One of my favourite quotes is “if you’re persistent you will get what you want, if you’re consistent you will keep it”. Success in anything you do in life doesn’t come from what you do occasionally. It comes from what you do consistently. Why am I saying this? Trust me this is important. Now, I’m not saying you have to be at this all day every day. We all have lives to lead, we have jobs, we have responsibilities. I understand, we all do. But what I mean by this is it’s important to stick to your routine of how you run your profile. Results don’t happen in a day, god sometimes they don’t even happen in a week! I know it's disheartening. We put so much effort in and we get nothing in return so you want to give up? Don’t! When we hit a wall, figure out how to climb it, walk around it or even go through it. The road to success is always under construction. When things get tough and you are about to give up, remember why you started. There’s someone out there looking for you. You're someone's perfect seller, remember good things come to those who wait.

As Much As This Is Fun, This Is Business.

With any business, when you start it takes work and dedication. You are the photographer, the seller, the wearer, the amateur porn star, the master or mistress. You are whoever you want to be and that’s what your profile, shop and panties will represent. I can’t promise that you’ll make quick and easy money, but if you put in the work you will definitely reap the rewards.

I'm going to end my blog here as I could type for ages and it's already long enough. I get a lot of questions from new buyers asking for help and advice so if you have any questions I can answer in another blog post if it’s something you would all enjoy. I will happily do so.

In the 3 short months I have been here, it has been such an amazing journey for me. Not only has it helped me financially, but it has also been a confidence builder and has opened my eyes to so many new kinks and fetishes. I would recommend it to all. Thank you so much both sellers and buyers for making this journey so amazing for me. I am proud of the person you have all helped me to become. I appreciate the diverse range of amazing people I have met, and I am looking forward to what's yet to come!

Love you all my kinky bunch.

Kitty x