Deleted User

By Miss_Belle 1459 views 22nd Jun 2026

Seller

Where did you go?

I miss the man who bought my old, worn-out toe printed shoes… just to hide them away in the loft… his secret that he enjoyed when he was home alone…

I miss the nylon tights loving man who never failed to show up for our tights calls — every Wednesday at exactly 8:15am, like clockwork just to see my toes pushed against the nylon. Every Wednesday I’d get a message ‘are you free at the usual time’. It was our little routine that always felt easy…

I miss the younger man who liked an older woman who’d message me every week saying, “I think I need another pair of your panties…”. I loved knowing exactly what he liked before he even had to ask…

There are so many buyers on here who’ve opened my eyes to different kinks and fetishes — things I’ve learned, explored, and genuinely enjoyed creating for. And when they suddenly disappear out of the blue, it feels like reading a sexy novel… and never getting the final chapter.

Because for me, it’s never just about the order.

It’s the connection. The conversations. The way something simple can turn into something you actually look forward to. I like knowing what you enjoy… and making it even better each time.

That’s why my regulars matter to me.

So when the messages suddenly stop… when a name I recognise disappears from my inbox… I won’t lie, my heart drops a little. I check my reviews, hoping everything’s still there — and then I see it:

“Deleted user.”

And I always wonder…

Did I say something wrong?
Did they find someone else?
Or did life just get in the way of something they enjoyed?

I will never forget a regular. Not one.

And sometimes, out of nowhere, a new account pops up with a message:

“Hey… remember me?”

And of course I do.

Because once we’ve found something that works… something you enjoy… it’s never really gone.

So if you’ve been thinking about ordering from me… or coming back to something familiar…

Don’t overthink it.

Send the message.
Start the conversation.
Let’s pick up where we left off… or create something even better this time.

Join us for free and start your journey!

By Miss_Belle

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Comments

Katie_babyy This is so relatable 💕 I love my regulars and I get so upset when they disappear, but I have recently had one message me again and it was such a joyful conversation...we talked like he never left.

Nightshard @Kaytwoesso but why close an account and then open another, why not just keep your old account and return to it

Kaytwoesso Damn. This is my 4th account on here over the last 2 years, I hop on for a couple of months and then disappear when life gets busy. But I always seem to return when I can, never really giving much thought about the sellers side to the story.. this is eye opening

Flowerlotus8765 THIS!!! I can relate to this heavily. It makes me so sad when a regular buyer deletes, especially without even a warning 🥲 I wish I had more regular buyers bc building a connection with them is not only fun in general but brings me joy too. ♥️♥️

Xstrogen I love this blog, it captures soo many emotions from my past year on ATW. Thank you for sharing. 💖

Nightshard It's kind of sad when you go through your reviews and helf of them are from deleted users and you can't even tell who they are

Nightshard It works both ways, as a buyer who has been at it since 2019 I can't even count the number of sellers who have come and gone, some said goodbye, some just vanished one day without a trace, some that were absolutely stunning, some that were so sweet and special and some that made some of the best panties that I ever got, sad, sad 😔

Youngbeauty This is the first blog I’ve actually read and it’s so true that stomach dropping moment when u see them words “deleted user” and you have to continue like it’s nothing

Squirtergonewild69 I agree

Socksandheels Lovely written article and it's definitely the same from the other side when a seller you have built a connection with ups and leaves

ElenaRose Agree wholeheartedly...i used to think the same disappointment, did I say something wrong but now I know that life can get in the way but deleted user's, our regulars are always welcome back ❤️

Daveyboi2026 Message me back 👍👍👍

Johnny_B1 Hm lovely article 👌 I was not far from deleting mine a couple of times. Perhaps some of them are in relationship, perhaps some got bored or caught by wifes , girlfriends or got what they needed. Who knows 🤷‍♂️

ItsAphrodite Agree 💯

BankOfLilith Love this!!! ❤️

CurvyxMilfxVee 💯 agree on this ❤️❤️😈

Miss_Belle @Curvy_Amelia 💯 but I still like to know close the chapter 📕 x

Missembervex So many instances of this. It hurts my little heart

Curvy_Amelia Post nut clarity is real and it's fine . I respect their decision to delete account and I really hope he will never come back for his own mental health ❤️

Brunettebaby69 I sold my first pair of panties and as soon as I shipped them, the buyer deleted their account and I never got to find out what their thoughts were on them 😢

Brunettebaby69 Loved reading this 🥰

SweetSins160 I came back to find my regular was moving on with his life and deleted his account here. I was sad but happy for him.

SweetSins160 I loved this.

TemptingcurvesKate THIS 👌

OliviaLane Congrats on the blog. Awesome job!

Miss_Belle Awww I love that you all love my blog 🫶🏼 i felt emotional reading it back to myself 🥹 xxx

SussyXO This is amazing…like YES

Goddesss_Scarlett I looooove this

TLP84 Yes to this! ❤️

Sabrinaa Love this! ❤️❤️

DANG3R_GAM3R Can’t let the wife & kids find out about this 👀🤭

Kay_x The worst is when they come back, pretend they don’t know you & then try to build the connection anew 😂 Diabolical. Great blog ❤️

MissCharlotte This is perfect. When there's a good connection it hurts to lose them. Still waiting for my "Remember me?" message 🤞

Droux I am far too hormonal for this today 🥲😭 beautiful read 🖤

Sinn3rs_Collective Such a great read! 🖤🖤

Itssophiaknight I feel this in my soul 👏🏼

MissGem I did my first sale this week, he was my first review, next day .... gone and I felt it deeper than I thought!

Lilith_xoxo I feel this so hard! It’s rare that I find that connection in the first place and it’s so sad to lose it suddenly. And to not know if they’re ok.

TheFairyDommeMother @Phasic that’s a good point about it being both ways, any connection is hard to loose when it’s established

AlexandraSays I know how you feel!

QueenAshleigh95 I LOVE this!!! I feel you that feeling losing a regular is gut wrenching. Adore my regs and so grateful for them all 🥰

Phasic the same can be said for some sellers who just disappear. I hope they are well and life is doing them well. This hit especially hard for me when someone I cared about was in a bad situation and disappeared without being able to contact them. I every now and then check in case they have come back

Freya_Knickalicious Love this so much! 🫶🏼 this was definitely something that I wasn’t prepared for when I started this, thanks, great read xx

LanaLovall One of my favourite blogs ever! So true and that feeling when they go is horrible. Thanks for putting this into such lovely words XXX

TheFairyDommeMother I love this! My heart drops a little when I see a name disappear from the inbox too! Like unfinished business and I want to know what’s happened to that person or their account. Maybe I’m too nosey for my own good 🤣

Kenziex0x0 Such a good read! Loved it!

RosalindTheBard this this this!

Popsiclemomma This 🩷

Yourfavnursexo Love this!! So relevant! 🥰

Mozzy Retweet! The sudden disappearance is always so jarring after spending so much time getting to know buyers and learning about their likes. The time I spend on regular buyers is more than what they see in our sessions, but I’m always doing research on ways to offer top experiences💫

MissJaide Great post. I feel this in my soul! 💗

HonVaz We have all been there...great blog!

Petite_Princess Great blog, this really resonates with me, as I'm sure it does with many others here. x

TigressTasha1 Absolutely love this 🫶 And its so true

Smittenxkitten Ugh this this this! So many buyers think they’re “just another buyer”…no, baby boo, you matter to us 🖤

StellasSultryStash Omg! This! Brilliantly put. I read a book that referred to this as the morning after syndrome and I have to remember that often when I feel all gloomy and miss them. So relatable. Thanks for sharing xx