Delve a Little Deeper…Trust Me It’s Worth It!

Seller Sellers’ Perspective Delve a Little Deeper…Trust Me It’s Worth It!

Where do we draw the line with our buyers? A buyer, a friend, a mysterious online fantasy..? Now I’m not going to pretend that these lines haven’t become blurred for me at times and I think certainly some of you can relate to this. I am totally guilty of getting caught up in the moment; it’s difficult for me at times not to get carried away but personally, I enjoy it more this way and no I’m not going to apologise for it either; go big or go home right? 😜 If you’re not all in is there any point?

I’m certainly not one to do things by halves and I’m not about to start now. You may not all agree with my way of thinking and that is absolutely fine but I’m here because I love it; it’s not all about the sales for me; I have as much fun as my buyers do and I think by providing a more genuine and authentic experience for our buyers; where you can connect on a deeper level makes all the difference.

I have previously stated on my profile that I tend to keep my circle small as I like to give people the attention they deserve and this is exactly the reason why; building that trust and rapport with one another is a priority for me; for both of our benefits. I give my buyers my all, taking my time getting to know them, learning about each other… surely it’s just good sense to cover the basics before you get to the good stuff.

Creating a Safe Space To Share Our Deepest Secrets

It can take time for someone to open up about things they may be interested in, particularly if they are new to the fetish world; you could be the first person they have ever shared these thoughts with and I think having the patience and understanding of the courage it takes to share those innermost desires is so important. Our buyers deserve our respect and our compassion, we are providing a service but ultimately what we do with and for our buyers is incredibly intimate; we create a safe space to share our deepest secrets, we indulge, we fantasise and at times…yes, we bare all so trust is indeed a massive part of the overall experience.

Of course, everyone has their own way of going about things and yes at the end of the day we sellers are here to provide a service, but I personally feel more comfortable stripping off for people that I know and have bonded with 🙊. A more confident me means better content at the end of the day so that’s the way I choose to do it; I take my time, I build trusting, lasting relationships and NO I don’t charge for it. I encourage buyers to take their time to get to know me, I’m not naïve enough to think that I’m everyone’s cup of tea and I will always appreciate those honest enough to admit if they’ve changed their minds as we all know how much we love a time waster 🙄.

Look After your Buyers & They Will Look After You

We all have our types sure; I certainly have my favourites and yes they get the preferential treatment 😉 I look after my buyers because they look after me; I treat them every now and again because I want to because I enjoy them and their company and am thankful for the time they invest with me. I’m no one-hit-wonder; my buyers come back and they come back for a reason, I’m genuine and I’m loyal and so far that’s working for me; I don’t pretend to be anything I’m not and I think my buyers appreciate that.

I’m happy to chat the night away with you and no, I would not expect that conversation to result in a sale. I very rarely approach buyers first, I would rather you came to me because you wanted to, however, if I do approach you first there is something about you that I like, you have peaked my interest and I am intrigued; I love a good stalk of your profiles so a bit of advice to new buyers, get something in your bio, tell us a bit about you, that instant attraction is what builds the foundation of the connections we make here and in my opinion it certainly makes all the difference.

I’m going to put it out there and say I cannot stand pushy sellers! I believe there are ways to go about things and yes everyone is different but I don’t believe ATW was created to be purely business, this is a community and I really would like to encourage people to try to maintain that because it makes such a difference to the overall experience for both buyers and sellers. I have joined other platforms in the past and got fed up very quickly; nothing compares to the community we have built here so let’s do our bit to help keep it going.

This Community Has Made Me Come Alive!

I’m not saying there is anything wrong with a strictly business way of buying and selling but in my opinion, I just don’t think that’s what this site is about; it’s no fun that way…give in to it, have some fun, let loose and enjoy…I promise you’ll get a damn sight more out of it. I was a very different woman when I joined this site seven months ago, and those who really know me will back me up when I say this; especially in these past few months I have absolutely come alive and it is thanks to this community that I have been able to do that and for it, I will always be grateful.

To my fellow sellers, my OG’s, my cheerleaders; you inspire me, you empower me, you motivate me to keep going, to keep shining and to just be me. You’re incredible, you are fierce and I am so grateful for you all 🥰. To my buyers, my friends, my fantasies; you are all such beautiful people; your kind words and compliments have done more for me than I think any of you will ever realise. You have given me a level of confidence I never thought I would have, you encourage me, you praise me and make me feel beautiful, you’re incredibly kind, wonderful people and I thank you all for the time we spend together, I truly treasure every single one of you 💋.

Whether you are a buyer or seller we all deserve to get everything we can from this experience so I hope this blog encourages you all to delve just a little bit deeper, don’t be afraid to step outside of your comfort zone once in a while…you never know you might enjoy it. Go at your own pace; chat, laugh, connect, get lost in this wonderfully weird world of kink; I can assure you it’s worth it.

Love & Hugs Darlings

UndeniablyKinky 💋

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