From Body Dysmorphia to Body Confidence

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From Body Dysmorphia to Body Confidence

Hello, Iโ€™m GoddessDesiree, fiancรฉe, mother of 3 and a woman with an eating disorder and body imaging issues ๐Ÿค

Iโ€™ve slightly debated writing this, but what the hell! With the possibility it could explain me as a person a bit better, and help someone else in a similar boat, Whatโ€™s the worst that could happen?

I started All Things Worn in February 2023, but decided to take myself off for a few weeks as I wasnโ€™t sure I had the confidence in me to do so.

Even after coming back, this thought still flies through my head sometimes quite viciously. but Iโ€™m more confident than Iโ€™ve ever been, let me explain why.

I had my first child at 17, Iโ€™ve carried big 3 times and my body stretched all over, this includes my back, my thighs, my arms, my breasts, and of course my stomach.

The Start of The Problem.

I was in a very abusive relationship for a long time, more so after having a child, being told my body was a reminder of a zebra crossing, being laughed at and being told Iโ€™m too fat and being cheated on consistently. I found myself being the women who hid her body under oversized jumpers, wearing my hood up and relying on cannabis to bring a smile to my face.

After getting myself away from this situation I lost 3 stone, and I had that slight confidence and the attention I craved after being told nobody would ever find me desirable again.

New relationship arises, wonderful! NOT. Iโ€™ve gone back round in a circle. the same comments thrown at me, knocked me all the way back down again, gained back all the weight Iโ€™d lost, hair falling out, always crying โ€œwhy arenโ€™t I good enough? Will I ever be?โ€

Fast forward! I fell pregnant with my second after finding love and trust in a new partner the thought of ever being bigger to me again scared the life out of me, but I knew in my heart Iโ€™d be loved and admired by him.

After having my baby, I had to go through all of that again, losing 3 stone and looking in the mirror at my body and tearing up and thinking โ€˜Why is this happening to me? Iโ€™m only 21โ€ฆโ€™ I was already prepared to keep my body hidden forever, from my partner, from anybody.

After having my 3rd baby, within a few weeks people were saying to me โ€œyouโ€™re too thinโ€ โ€œyou need to eat moreโ€ โ€œyou look terribleโ€ โ€œyou look unwellโ€.

I was thinner than I was pre pregnancy, in fact thinner than Iโ€™d ever been. But still looking in the mirror in size 6-8 clothing thatโ€™s too loose and feeling absolutely vile, crying and just wanting to wrap myself up in a blanket and hide.

After a while I found myself going to the doctors and after tests and appointments, I was told I have the eating disorder Anorexia Nervosa.

Anorexia is a big battle to win, pair that with body dysmorphia? Itโ€™s a party.

Getting on those scales every day, 4 times a day, โ€ฆ Iโ€™ve gone up by 1lb since this morning and Iโ€™m bloated?! Now all of a sudden you begin to notice every single flaw you THINK you have, just in that 1lb difference.

This is Where All Things Worn Comes In.

Casually browsing the internet, and Iโ€™d read something about selling feet pictures, I was thinking HMMM wouldnโ€™t that be a dream? Somebody would pay to see my feet, yeah alright! ๐Ÿคฃ

I joined ATW and realised itโ€™s more than feet pictures, I can see all these beautiful confident women, I can see fetishes of my own normalised! I see bodyโ€™s being embraced. Itโ€™s beautiful.

I remember first receiving messages complimenting my beauty and my body, OH ALSO MY FEET! ๐Ÿ˜‰

I felt this instant feeling of CONFIDENCE.

Thatโ€™s a great word isnโ€™t it? To be and to feel confident, a feeling I hadnโ€™t felt for a long time, and after a while Iโ€™ve f*cking smashed it, but I wouldnโ€™t have if it wasnโ€™t for this community ๐Ÿค

Sometimes my mood will get shot down naturally and Iโ€™ll shy away from things until Iโ€™m feeling it, and hopefully this will explain why. Thereโ€™s still a long road ahead for me, which is why you tend to see more photos of my face then my body on the dash ๐Ÿค

Sometimes who you may believe is the most confident woman isnโ€™t. Treat anybody in this world the way youโ€™d wish to be treated yourself, our appearance doesnโ€™t define who we are inside ๐Ÿค

I truly have met some amazing people through ATW, people Iโ€™ll keep near and dear to me for a very long time ๐Ÿค

If youโ€™ve taken the time to read this, thank you. Stay beautiful, humble and remember that kindness always wins ๐Ÿค

GoddessDesiree xx

By GoddessDesiree

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GoddessDesiree Thank you so much honeys๐Ÿฅนโ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿปโ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป

PapaBear47 Thank you for writing and putting this and your self out there. You are so right with everything you have said in hear. ATW community is very nice. It's help me to. I am so glad and help that you are still fighting and that you are getting comfortable and more comfortable with who you are and what you look like. You do and our absolutely beautiful โค๏ธโค๏ธ

GingerPhoenix Thank you so much for sharing!! xx I'm glad this has been healing and freeing for you, too. I love it. Hugs and cheering you on!

ItsCiC Youโ€™re soooo pretty!

Lovely_Lolly โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ you are beautiful woman, inside and out.

KateCorbain You are wonderful! Thank you for being so vulnerable, it's such a strength ๐Ÿ’ช โค๏ธ

Barefoot_Bunny_Solemate Love this! ๐Ÿ˜ Keep on moving onwards and upwards you gorgeous lady! โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

MisstressLeyla Oh lovely I'm so heartbroken for that hard times you had and it makes me angry that someone who was supposed to lift you up has said such vile things to you! you are so beautiful, strong Lioness! Keep healing and keep loving yourself and WE here will lift you up every day!โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

Cowgirlkitten3 Inspirational <3

Mumscreationsbyd Think this is amazing . And itโ€™s like we should never judge a book by its cover . You are absolutely stunning hun inside and out too Iโ€™m glad you have found this site and Iโ€™m Glad itโ€™s giving you more confidence . And for the dark moments xx Iโ€™m here with my shit banter and charm xx

Alexibun Lovely read, thank you so much for sharing such a personal experience with us! ๐Ÿฅฐ

MrsMuma โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

ChauffeurSubLeeOwnedByPeachy230 Well wrote and brave piece, respect! And so happy You bet on Yourself joining here and turning everything around. Xx

Fabbianaa Amazing!!!

ArabianNiights Girl you are breathtaking! Show of that sexy body! We want to see more ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ’œ

Juicy_X_Josie Iโ€™m so glad you managed to fight through anorexia. I was chatting to a seller just today about how ATW helped me regain lost confidence. Iโ€™m so glad itโ€™s done the same for you too! ๐Ÿฅฐ

LovelyLuka An amazing read! Thank you love! โค๏ธ

STRyker_Alpha_8 ATW is an amazing place for boosting your confidence. You have put it all so eloquently in this blog. We all appreciate you beautiful xxx

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BashfulAsh That was like reading about myself. Thank you for being brave enough to share that ๐Ÿ–ค๐Ÿ–ค

MidwestBlondie I was just thinking yesterday how ATW has helped my confidence more than I ever expected!! Thanks for putting it into words, you are amazing ๐Ÿฅฐ

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