Why Taking a Break Is So Important

By Redhead_Roxxy 11 views 1st Aug 2026

Taking regular breaks from this site is vital, and the only thing that’s kept me sane! When you first join, you get swept up in this whirlwind of emotions, and I know for a lot of people this is more than just a side hustle, it’s a means to provide. You get addicted to earning money in such a fun and creative way, while also getting off? Sounds like a dream…the problem is, this job is incredibly draining:

Talking to multiple people at once is emotionally draining in itself, it's hard for me sometimes to keep up with my messages, and when I have more than 5 or 6, I get easily overwhelmed and want to run away. Pair that with TW’s, people trying to haggle your prices or people trying to get free content….you’re on a one way train to losing your god damn mind

When these feelings start to kick in, you can start to spiral, and feel like what am I doing wrong, and then you start to compare yourself with other sellers, I know for me personally, I see people with loads more reviews that started way after me, and I start to question if I’m good enough for an industry like this.

On top of all this, you’ve also got a whole other life to lead, a family to take care of, another job to be present for, a different version of yourself that you don’t reveal on the site.

When you’re feeling a bit hopeless, endlessly refreshing the dash, wondering where all the decent buyers are, you need to stop. Because nothing is going to flow when you’re in that state. Take a few hours, the evening or even a few days to come back to yourself. Get some fresh air, touch some grass, have a bath, go have a girly night, whatever it is you do to wind down or forget about the world for a minute, go and do that. Get your mindset right, and come back refreshed.

Every time, I’ve come back to sales, because I’m not forcing anything, and it gives me a moment to remember why I love this space and community. You’re doing a lot better than you think, learn to rest, not to quit💚

Join us for free and start your journey!

By Redhead_Roxxy

Hi, I’m Roxy, your favourite milf, a short and fiery redhead 🔥 I’m quite sweet, but can switch it up when needed 😈 I am naturally submissive and love being called a...

View Profile >

Interested in contributing to our awesome community blog? Why not get in touch with our friendly team?

More From Our Blog

The Glory of Self-Love

How masturbation and selling my panties helped me feel like a goddess. Well, you already know what this article is about from the subject, but bear with me as I...

Seller Sellers’ Perspective

Don't Open Your Inbox for Free Kink Chat!

Selling used lingerie and adult content online, you quickly discover there’s a certain type of buyer who thinks your inbox is an opportunity to lure you into freebies! They have no...

By GingerRuby

Seller

How to Start Selling on All Things Worn? Beginner's Guide

I know it can be exhausting spending every single minute of your day checking if any buyers have messaged you or if you have made any sales. Especially if you...

By Sl*ttyVampire

Seller Tips For Sellers

Why Mystery Creates Better Buyers

When I first started selling online, I thought success came from giving people everything immediately. Every photo. Every detail. Every answer. I thought the more available I was, the more successful I'd become. What...

By Shadowplay

Seller

Join for FREE today!