How All Things Worn Empowered Me as a Disabled Seller

By Missembervex 488 views 17th Jun 2026

Seller

If you’ve been around me long enough, you’ll know that chronic pain and fatigue can often try to rule my life, but I’ll be gagged and bound before I let that happen. Sounds tempting.

Financial Independence

All Things Worn has expanded my financial freedom tremendously. We all know there are good days and bad, but the good days by far outweigh the bad, and the additional income allows me to be less fearful of taking time out of my very highly demanding vanilla job if I should need to.

Building Confidence

Yes, this does make me giggle too, as my confidence is nowhere near where it should be. It is, however, important to acknowledge the growth I have achieved: showcasing a body that fights against me and not being ashamed of it for that fact. Not all disabilities are visible, and if they are, that is sexy too 🥰

Inclusivity and Awareness

I am by no means an expert when it comes to disability awareness, and I certainly don’t speak for everyone. What I do believe is that it is crucial to shed light on the difficulties people may be facing behind the glitz and the glamour. Awareness creates understanding, and understanding creates inclusion.

Looking to the Future

I never could have imagined my life changing so immeasurably. Waking up in the morning, logging on, and seeing what fun ATW has in store for me each day is something I truly appreciate. There’s always someone new to connect with, an acronym you haven’t heard of before, or even a “wow, I haven’t tried that before!” moment.

I still have panties I’d like to send to every corner of the planet, and I’m still adding to my list of the most interesting customs.

Every day brings excitement.

Community Support

Of course, none of this would be achievable without the love and support of the All Things Worn community. Both buyers and sellers have been there through flare-ups and have picked me back up when times were tough. There’s always a listening ear when you need it and someone to provide a good laugh when you’re lacking one.

I’m always grateful for everyone 🩷

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Missembervex @OliviaLane thank you 🩷

Rainafterdark love this 🤎🫶🏼

OliviaLane Congrats on the blog. Great job!

Missembervex @Sweetpoison keep at it! Don’t give up x

Sweetpoison God bless you!!! Definitely on the same page with both physical & mental health, thought i would give this ago, but not doing so well 😭😭😭

MistressRhi @Missembervex im getting on thank you! Hope you are too! X

Missembervex @MistressRhi hope you’re feeling amazing today 🩷

MistressRhi Oh my!!! Love this as also a disables seller!!! 😍🥰 thank you for writting it!

Fenfeet If I don't stop now I'll rabbit on about this all night, but what a thought provoking read 💜

Fenfeet Such a good read 💜 there's enough stigma around SW as is, yet how many have "vanilla" jobs too and encounter the public 😂 (sorry sidetrack). The stigma around those who are disabled and in SW is tenfold by comparison yet it allows you to connect with people in a way that, depending on circumstances, would otherwise be inaccessible to you. Being disabled does not remove the sexual being (depending on personal circumstances) that you inherently are.

Missembervex Honesty ladies thank you so much for all the love 🩷

Missembervex @Cheeky23 thank you 🩷

Cheeky23 Can’t love this enough. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️❤️

Pippi18 @Missembervex totally get what you mean .I feel I have to prove myself sid the consequences xx

Missembervex @MissYuna thank you 🩷

Missembervex @Pippi18 spoons needed! Thank you so much. The misconception that, well I’m just not as good or won’t be able to do something is just not accurate. 9 times out of 10 I will push through but just once in a while, it might just need to wait until tomorrow x

MissYuna It was a beautiful read 🌸 Thank you for sharing it 💕

Pippi18 This is so good and it takes a lot for somebody with a hidden disability to open up about it .Sadly a lot of people are very ignorant to disabilities they cant see so its "you dont look sick so you must be lying ". I face this both from a personal level and profesional . Well done babe .Sending spoons xxxx

Missembervex @SugarThighs thank you darling! I hope you’re feeling strong and your cup is full of sunshine today x

Missembervex @Sammie26 awww thank you sweetie 🩷🥹