So, You’ve Cracked The First Steps Of ATW Success—Then BAM! The Slump Hits

Seller Tips For Sellers

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Here’s the part nobody warns you about: You’re cruising through the early days on ATW, all bright-eyed and optimistic, thinking you’ve got this whole “online hustle” thing figured out. Then, out of nowhere, WHAM, the slump hits. It’s like you’re riding a high-sp**d train and someone suddenly slams a brick wall in front of you. Surprise! The magic wears off faster than a one-hit-wonder. Financial gains are cute and all, but momentum? Yeah, that’s about as stable as my emotional state after 18 months here. And those serious buyers? p**f.

They vanish like David Blaine—“Where’d they go?”—and I’m left wondering if they ever existed at all.

I’m telling you, after my first four months on ATW, the reality of staying consistent slapped me across the face like a soggy biscuit at a tea party. That honeymoon phase? Gone. The rose-colored gla**es? Cracked. This is no longer “just a hobby,” my friend—nope, it’s a full-blown, demanding, “are-you-still-here?” job that requires way more effort than I ever signed up for. And trust me, I’m someone who loves customer service… but sometimes I would gladly trade it in for a good ol’ game of “choose war” instead of “please and thank you.”

Let’s be real for a second: home life is everything. If my house looks like a Black Friday sale at TK Maxx—chaos everywhere—then my brain is a literal hurricane of overthinking, anxiety, and “why-did-I-think-I-had-it-together?” thoughts. And when my head is a mess? Guess what? My interactions on ATW are a mess too. I quickly learned that my mental state directly impacts my sales. So if I’m not mentally present? I might as well be sitting there with a big ol’ neon sign that says “Closed for Business c*cknose, Go Away.”

Now, here comes the fun part: I’ve been diagnosed with PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder, for those who are fortunate enough not to know what that is). This means that for about half the month, I’m basically a sales superhero. During the Follicular phase, I’m on fire. You’ll think I’m the most charming, accommodating seller you’ve ever met. I’m practically ready to become a glove puppet for three shillings and a kebab. Seriously, I’ll sell you anything.

But—catch me 10 days later? It’s like stepping into the gates of hell. If you’re into brutal humiliation and pain play, then congrats—you’ve hit the jackpot. If not… well, you might want to politely ask someone else to handle your panty requests, because I’m stabby, my patience is in the wind, and my prison pocket is about to go full a**ault mode. The Luteal phase? It’s tough. Real tough. My house looks like a war zone, I’ve got hormonal flare-ups in places I didn’t even know could flare up, and my kids? They’ve eaten McDonald’s 78 times in 3 days. Oh, and I’ve got dreadlocks forming in places I didn’t think my body even could dreadlock. Pretty sure I’m morphing into a sasquatch at this point.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re juggling multiple personalities while riding the wild rollercoaster of self-employment—aka kitty sales—I feel you. It’s impossible to stay consistent when your productivity is directly tied to your mood, your energy.

So, here’s how I’ve figured out how to make my profile look like I’ve got my life together (spoiler alert: I don’t). These are the hacks that keep me sane, semi-productive, and somehow still managing to make sales without completely combusting into a pile of stressed-out chaos:

1. You’re in Control—Own It.

At the bottom of every order, I make sure to clearly state that delivery will be within 48 hours. Why? Because life is a cruel mistress who enjoys randomly kicking you in the teeth for no reason. By giving myself that cushion, I avoid the anxiety of feeling like I’m letting anyone down. 48 hours is my safety net. Find your own, and communicate it like you mean it. A lot of sellers don’t deliver immediately, so don’t get caught up in the pressure of pretending you’re McDonald’s drive-thru. This isn’t fast food, the only thing that should be fast around here is… their ejaculation.

2. Let Your Listings Do the Talking.

Stop wasting time chatting endlessly with people who haven’t even committed yet. Instead, create listings so detailed and captivating that buyers can’t help but smash that “order” bu*ton. Be expressive, be descriptive, make them feel like they absolutely cannot live without your product. The more engaging and thorough your listings, the less time you’ll spend answering basic questions like, “Hey, what’s the deal with this?” Trust me, soon enough, you’ll be getting more “I’m ready to order” messages and fewer “What’s this thing actually do?” inquiries.

Sure, creating these listings takes time, but think of it as a short-term labor of love for a long-term gain. Like planting a tree—it’s a bit of work at first, but then, eventually, you can just chill under the shade and enjoy the fruits of your labor (or in this case, your orders).

3. Trust Your Gut—It’s Never Wrong.

If something feels off about a conversation or a potential buyer, trust that instinct. You’ll save yourself so much time by not engaging with tire kickers or people who just want to waste your time. If your listing is clear and informative, and someone still has 30 questions, it’s a red flag. Listen to that inner voice telling you, “This isn’t worth it.”

4. There’s Enough Business for Everyone—Don’t Compete.

Seriously, stop getting caught in the comparison trap. There’s more than enough room for every female seller to thrive on ATW. Spend a little time each day engaging with your community—like posts, comment, build real relationships. You’re not in competition with other sellers, you’re building your own unique space. Focus on what makes you stand out, and trust me, the rest will follow.

I’ll tell you now, this is one of my biggest lessons from my time on ATW. For anyone running a page, you’ll soon learn that the true magic comes from leaning into your community. They’re not just followers; they’re your support system. There’s a level of security and trust that comes from having a solid base of people who get you, and when you need it most, they’ve got your back. Trust me, building that bond is worth more than any number of followers or quick sales.

5. Know Your Cycle—Work Smarter, Not Harder.

If you’ve got a cycle or hormonal imbalance that affects your mood or energy (let’s be real, we all do), work with it, not against it. Plan around your highs and lows. If you know that Lucifer is coming for you on the 20th, then hustle hard beforehand—get those orders in, baby. But when it’s time to ride the hormonal wave of doom? Let it roll. When you’re feeling productive, go full throttle. But when you’re in a funk, it’s okay to pull back, rest, and focus on actual self-care. You’re not a robot, and you don’t need to be “on” 24/7. Sometimes, rest is just as important as productivity. In fact, it might even be the secret sauce. You know, the thing that keeps you from turning into a frazzled mess of caffeine and pa**ive-aggressive energy.

6. Be Proactive

Let’s kill the myth that top sellers just sit back, sip margaritas, and have orders magically land in their inbox. News flash: it doesn’t work like that. To keep those orders rolling in, you’ve got to put in some actual effort. Evaluate your output, stay on top of your game, and be proactive. Be fun. Be unique. Be captivating. Copy-paste messages? Offensive. Buyers can smell lazy communication from a mile away. So take a second to actually read someone’s profile before reaching out. Trust me, it’ll make a huge difference.

7. You Are Not Steven Spielberg

You are not Steven Spielberg, so stop putting that pressure on yourself to deliver an Oscar-worthy performance with 17 different angles and a plot twist that takes place in three different countries. Seriously. Feel free to push back on unreasonable requests and set those expectations early—otherwise, you’ll end up with a whole lot of dread when it comes time to film. Own your space, your content, and your conversations. That personalised touch you bring is what keeps people coming back—not some overly produced, action-packed blockbuster. You’re selling a vibe, not The Avengers.

And with that, my unsolicited blog (that no one asked for) comes to a close. I hope at least some of this was useful—or at the very least, that you’ve found some kindred spirits in these rants. We’re all here for the same reason, so let’s embrace the chaos, be fabulous, and remember: we’re all s**y and brilliant in our own weird way.

So, I’ll leave you with this little gem of wisdom:

Don’t be a d*ck, respect your buyers, build your empire and most importantly get your milk cannons out….

Because I want to see them….

Kind regards,

Your resident pervert! @Nancy_wears

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