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Summersubstoday

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Beta male. Naturally submissive ("still subby, even after I c*m!")
A devious mind and a total degenerate by any measure.
Kinky for femdom, chastity, edging, orgasm denial and very occasional findom.

I also have a big kink for swimsuits and swimwear. The tight fitting, highcut, one piece shape just... works 🥵

I generally prefer kink and fetish products, so if you don't have experience in these, it's less likely you'll have something I will buy or interact with.

It's ok to DM me but I'm best approached with respect until we know each other. After that I can be your pathetic, beta loser b**ch if you want. But honestly, I'm really not "babe" 😂

I try to get back to everyone but I am very in/out here and can be very busy and distracted, so apologies if I missed you. I am also borderline unreasonable with the block bu*ton. Please don't take it personally.

I buy content mostly, mostly clips, pics and occasionally experiences, calls. I can't usually buy physical items because of my personal situation.
I have a real love for the unique and different. Seeing new and innovative products here is really interesting to me. I write weird kinky stories sometimes in my spare time and my brain runs on the fuel of weird and kinky s**ual ideas. I'm just a bit odd - but hopefully, not too scary.

Wishlist sites like Throne, YouPayMe, Kinkcoins and giftcards are the best payment methods now. Revolut doesn't work anymore, my Paypal account was closed and I have to protect my anonymity so bank payments aren't good either.

I was born sick, but I love it. Command me to be well

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We don't have to waste each others time!
I won't be able to work with you, probably won't reply and may even block you if :-

- you just send a "hey", "hi", "hey you" (or equivalent)
- you are unverified
- your profile is private
- you are a anime/AI generated content account
- you have less than 5 positive reviews
- you joined less than 3 weeks ago
- you produce content with your mom/dau/sister/family etc (sorry, no shame)
- you have no experience or interest in any of the things I listed at the start
- you send me unsolicited pics, video clips, voice notes or files we've not previously agreed too.
- you are outwardly misandristic in your posts and messages, beyond the "siren call" (domination from a place of hate is not good, radfem belongs in universities, not s** work)

- you didn't read this list or think it doesn't apply to you

Sorry, I try to work with everyone, just trying to save everyones time and effort, thanks!

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Reviews for Summersubstoday :-

"Universally disliked" - Findom Magazine, Mar 2024
"Most blocked account on ATW" - s** workers monthly, Jan 2025
"That idiot c*nt" - Allthingswow! magazine, Feb 2025
"Pretentious idiot" - Splosh Monthly, Jan 2024
"Enabler of excellence" - c*m Now! magazine, May 2025
"He believes written d*ck reviews are the worst product on ATW" - Spurt Weekly, Feb 2025

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About Summersubstoday

105 Followers - 140 Following - 20 Badges

Gender: Male

Age: 40-50

Joined: 2 years ago

Profile Visits: 16325

What I'm looking for

Panties Lingerie High Heels Boots Stockings Swimwear Photo Sets Video Clips Experiences Dick Ratings Instant Pics Instant Vids

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Summersubstoday

Sorry everyone who I didn't reply to, or didn't enjoy their content properly yet etc.

I'm going to have to disappear for a bit again. SO much going on outside, virtually zero time to focus or enjoy here properly.

I'll be back hopefully soon!

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When I was 5, I started playing football. I don't like football. I only really did it because it was the only thing my friends did (playing football is what boys do, right?) and because my dad wanted me to. He gave me a West Ham shirt to wear. I didn't know what West Ham was (thought it was something in sandwiches?) but I went along with it because it made him happy.

And I sucked at it. I was SO bad. I have always been, good with a book and a pen - but terrible at sport. So when it came to picking teams, I always went through the ritual humiliation of being picked last and put in goal. Thats what happened to the kids who were bad at football. Ignored. Left till last. Kids would actively argue and warn the captain not to choose you. Then someone "ended up with you" and put you in goal.

And then as a final humiliation you sucked in goal. And everyone hated you.

However, then something weird happened. After being picked last and put in goal for about 9 years... I weirdly started to become quite good at being in goal. And when I saved a couple of good penalties, or had that time I tipped a game winning shot over the bar in the 88th minute - I felt really good about football..and myself.

And then something even weirder happened. By the time I was 14, I was getting picked FIRST because everyone wanted the best goalkeeper. My proudest moment was hearing the "captains" whispering to each other and one insisting "pick Dave, hes the best keeper" to the other.

Ok WTF am I tell you this for?

The point is, when you start something and you don't really know about it, you will be shit at it. It's normal. Its expected. It'll fucking suck. And ATW is like that too.

Your listings don't get attention. You only get "TW's". You don't feel good. You get "picked last" when all the other players seem to get picked first. You feel bad about yourself.

But if you stick at it and take enough footballs in your face, theres a chance you might improve. You find your niche. You find your rhythm. You can kind of do it.

You might never be Campos, Bruce Grobbelar or Jenna Jameson - but you might start to at least feel like you should be on the pitch. Don't give up automatically straight away. Give it a bit of time beyond the shitty feeling of "I can't do this."

Ok, and thats as positive as I'm going to be in 2026, so make the most of it. Back to negativity from here on in

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Back in the "old country", I remember catfish was a kink in it's own right.

It was primarily a findom thing and was usually "high octane." By this I mean, deeply psychological, usually (but not always) about add1ct1on, orgasm denial, very strong sexual humiliation and often rip off fetish. It was often dark and dealt with the more extreme end of psychological domination.

It was also usually completely ambiguous who was behind the account. It was a "don't ask" / "don't care" kind of fantasy land where the game and story were more important than the players. The pics and content were all models or AI/fake etc but were done just to trigger and stimulate. I interviewed one guy who ran one once for my blog, ("GoonGoddessLuna") - a young Indian guy who was making a nice amount of money (allegedly) on the side of his usual job and also getting himself off in the process.

It wasn't without controversy and there were plenty of people who just couldn't wrap their head round it - however, it was a kink in its own right and had plenty of fans. And it found its feet by the accounts being clearly labelled "catfish", "parody" or "not the person in the pics but you don't care."

So.... at what point do we need the same acceptance and labelling here on ATW?

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I know! I know the dash isn't for this!! - I'm really sorry. Please just indulge me for one second? (or just scroll past).

If you are in the UK and can, please do go out and vote in the local elections today? Or if you don't know who to vote for, just go in, draw a pic of a nob on your sheet and post it 😂 (IE, at least turn up)

I know it might seem boring and pointless. But, when so many of us take no interest, it's when the people we all pay to do important jobs for us, start making weird decisions and end up wasting huge amounts of our money. You might not know about it, but have a quick google of what happened in Thurrock, Peterborough or Woking as just small examples. Or even Birmingham. People living there have basically been given thousands of £'s of debt, thanks to the crazy decisions their councils made - in part because, nobody was interested.

So definitely, at least show them you are watching! .... then you can have a wank afterwards 😂😂

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Team. I know this is off topic sorry, but I just wanted to share something UK users MIGHT be interested in.

Gov UK is doing consultations online about DigitalID and controlling access to the internet. If you are in the UK, please do consider giving your views and sharing with others.

I can't link here, but if you copy/paste this into your favorite search engine, it'll come up as an early result:-

the online world: a national consultation
and
Making public services work for you with your digital identity

Or drop me a note and I'll share. Thanks

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Subby boys, got the perfect bank holiday weekend project for us! Whilst other people are doing DIY and watching James Bond films, instead we could :-

1. Collect at least 15 minutes worth of SPH dick ratings from superior Ladies

2. Edit them together with fast cuts to make one long humiliating video

3. Finish it with a reminder on how much you spent to make the video

4. Cum harder than you've ever cum in your life 😂

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guys , be careful with all these "whos been paid" polls that are appearing on the dash today.

There are reports that HMRC actually have a number of accounts here and are looking for people that might be evading or not paying the correct amount of tax and this is part of their operation.

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Me :- "oh gosh...hah...now you start to get an idea of just how weird I am"

She:- "Haha I love it "

Me:- oh...god...😭 thankyou...yummy yummy acceptance

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Good to remember that BEING a massive dick is not the same as HAVING a massive dick.

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I know, it might make NO sense to you at all, but there's a community of boys who don't want to see you naked. There are also some who don't want to have orgasms. It's probably not as common as those that do - but we exist.

The thing is, sex is about so much more than just penis, vagina and orgasm. Theres an unbelievable amount of complicated, emotional, often irrational and sometimes almost spiritual things human sexuality is used for. And I know theres this, prevailing idea all men are just, very simplistic animals who just want to do one thing. But it isn't actually the truth.

So it might seem weird... but its always worth asking "what do you need?" rather than just assuming. And that goes both on ATW and off it I guess.

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Look I'm not an expert dudes, but in my experience :-

"Hi! F*Ck your pics are so hot, you look amazing. I'm so horny now, if you have some free time and its ok, can we do some sexting or share some dirty messages whilst I enjoy myself? Do you have a fee for that sort of work or can I at least tip you etc for it? I'm so horny, I'd love to tell you what I'd want to do with you..."

...is likely to yield way better results as an opener with a seller than..

"tell me how much you'd like me to cum in you.."

One is - this is how much I value you, what I'm looking for and I acknowledge you have agency and that its a service and don't expect your time and effort for free. The other is just an order? And ... well... I want to cum in your pussy 🤣

Something something, doth butter no parsnips.

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Actually fairly frequently the "want" is completely dwarfed by the "fear of asking"

Rationally, you know, this lady has heard EVERYTHING before. Like, literally, you probably can't shock her. And you aren't going to be an annoyance, she'd be glad for more work. But even so, shes a stranger? You don't talk to strangers like that. And...how do you even begin to find the words to explain..that... thing. It's not...day to day. Its something you aren't even comfortable with yourself most of the time.

I'm minded of the "great" Morrissey who once wrote:-

"And in the darkened underpass I thought 'my god my chance has come at last!'
But then a strange fear gripped me and I just couldn't ask..."

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Used a girlfriends ID to sign up, AI to generate listings and dash posts that would appeal to submissives ,screenshots of clips he'd previously bought from another site or cam session. Collecting kinkcoins and gift cards. Only the extremely poor English and different tone vs the posts gives it away.

Beware the Jabberwock, my son! The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!

1mo

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Attended two meetings now at work that made me realise how HOT Russian can be when whispered softly and sweetly. 🥵 I didn't realise the Russian language had this "mode"

If anyone wants me, I'll be unreasonably sexualising hot Russian speaking Ladies for the next 6 hours 🥵

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Someone just sent me some screenshots of a couple of buyer bios and it made me want to post. I don't know if it has more impact coming from a buyer, but, take it or leave it.

If you are kinda new here, firstly hello! ❤️ Secondly, I've got a tip for ya.

Be extremely cautious around those buyers who are maybe suggesting physical meetings of some sort. They might well claim to be "experienced in filming content" or to have a £3m empire in luxury handbag distribution - and they might be very charming, funny and make you feel great. But in reality they could be a very lonely and dangerous individual.

I know 99% of you are sharp as a tack and can spot nonsense at 200 paces. But I also know there's a cost of living crisis on, the competition in the market here is extremely tough and for some, the temptation to do a "maybe I can just..." could be great.

I'm not saying you should feel afraid of everyone. I suspect 99.5% of buyers are like me....bit weird? Yes 😂 Bit creepy? Maybe. Dangerous? No.

But theres that 0.5% who you don't know. Definitely think twice then think again.

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My current pricing guys just so we are clear... 🙄

1 pic if you are reading my bio = £4
1 pic if you are talking to me in DM = £5
1 pic with face = £512.00 (reduced to £9.99 if its raining) ❤️
2 pics with face on Tuesday = £4.67 🐵
5 pics with face but only after 3:15pm on Fridays = £10.86 🧨
5 pics that are just a print out pic of John Cena = £11.83 🍆
10 pics with face but only my eyes and a carrot, like a Mr potato face = 1800 Nigerian dollars 🥕

13 pics of the eiffel tower but without boobs = £45.21 excluding VAT (but only if I trust you) 🗼

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Quick side note. Just because I liked or commented your post, doesn't mean that I necessarily :-

A) have looked at your profile or checked reviews

B) want to (or can) necessarily buy from you.

You are probably thinking - "well, no, that makes sense" but weirdly there are some here who, don't quite get it 😂

A like doesn't mean I'm going to buy your smell bikini Stacey 😂Sorry. It just doesn't work that way.

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2026 and people are still asking to use PPAL as payment method. I'm not even throwing shade on anyone, I'm genuinely actually in awe of anyone who managed to keep hold of an account and keep using it for adult payments still 🤣 Good on you.

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I've written this a couple of times here in the past but I think it bears repeating.

Maybe think twice about speaking to the media, or those in the "vanilla world" who want to interview you about ATW.

Whilst it can sound like genuine interest and care, many of those people, usually just want to gawk at us (all of us, but particularly men) and treat our community like a circus freak show? Presenting it to the outside world for sensation and shock value, simply to generate clicks and likes. Others want to make it sound like a very easy get rich quick scheme, or even sell their own "training" -

All of us here know by now, that's not the truth. It's not easy work at all.

I get it, it can be tempting. It's nice for our ego to be asked for our experience and of course the chance to get on TV and make a name for ourselves. But really good to think very long and hard about whether thats the right thing for the rest of the community in the long run. Personally, I don't work with anyone who does that sort of thing. But thats just me.

Just something to think about.

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"Like the sound of you and your profile" she says.

But with an unverified account and no reviews, clearly she hasn't read it at all 😅

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