Not Your Conventional Panty Buyer

Buyer Buyers’ Perspective Not Your Conventional Panty Buyer

I know we have “buyers” here from all walks of life, with all kinds of likes/dislikes and all different situations and that is what is so unique about this site, all are accepted. Something I wanted to touch on is feeling like you don’t fit in. I experienced that feeling greatly when I first joined here, and I want to make sure that nobody else feels the same. So I wanted to show that I now feel pretty well established here and this wasn’t always the case.

Intro

I have no idea why I joined this site, curiosity I guess, but my initial stay was short-lived. I had kept myself to myself, not posted on the dash and I was hit by some family issues and came back months down the line. Right away that would be a red flag to a lot of people, but life happens, don’t ever apologise for your life happening. Once I did return, I didn’t know what my purpose was here, how I would fit in, or even what I was looking for.

Feeling Accepted

For me personally, I knew I wanted something different, but I still wasn’t sure what that was. I have a steady life, a steady family and at times had no idea what I needed. I felt like I didn’t fit in, I saw buyers who sometimes were buying from multiple women a week. I knew right away that wasn’t for me. I want and need a deeper connection than what your body looks like, so I right away assumed this wasn’t the place for me.

I felt alienated and pathetic at times, but that was purely down to my mind and not anybody on here. I still couldn’t do what others do and buy from multiple people but that’s my choice and who I am, as it is theirs.

Personally, I laugh when I see a person telling any seller that they are the hottest thing going, only to then move on and then tell the next one that crosses their path the very same thing. But again that’s a preference. If that’s what they want to do then so be it. I knew very early that there are many amazing looking ladies on here but I could not bring myself to do that due to my need for that strong connection.

Making Mistakes

As a very emotionally charged person, I know I have made some mistakes since being here. I know there are people who don’t like me as a person, but in the grand scheme of things, the site mirrors real life. You can’t please everyone and honestly you shouldn’t try to, just be you.

I have made the mistake of posting on here when massively drunk, which is something I am sure most of us can relate to whether it's here or somewhere else. I embarrassed myself, I upset some people it seems, but the bottom line is that once again, generally people do understand and know you are not just a username and will make mistakes. Not that I am condoning coming on here after a few and making a fool of yourself, but I have done it and the true friends/people who don’t see you as just a username will understand.

Finding What You Need & Who You Are

I am not going to go into specifics as that isn’t the purpose of this, but I found what I was looking for in the most unexpected of ways, and quite honestly most people probably wouldn’t understand, but that’s the beauty of it. I don’t expect them to. It’s irrelevant and is very personal to me and the person involved. T

The bottom line is that this site allowed me to find that and express myself in a way I never thought I would before. In addition to this, I would strongly advise you to not be upset/offended by people who tell you how you should use this site, yes, it is here for a purpose, but the lines will always be set by the seller and buyer, exactly how it should be. Again, just be you.

Other Benefits

I have found some truly great friends here, and I don’t want to turn this into a sob story, but I want to emphasise the point. I have had a huge family tragedy very recently, and one that would rip at your heartstrings should I tell you about it no doubt, and guess what, the people who have helped me through this aren’t my family, they aren’t my real-life friends, they are people from this very site.

I think sometimes people think this is purely a transaction-based thing and that’s it, you couldn’t be further from the truth. I have made so many good friends here that regardless of my status on the site I will keep in touch with them.