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***SELLERS, PLEASE DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY IF YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE AND I DON’T REPLY*** I prefer to reach out by myself, in my own time, when one of you catches my eye on the dash (if I like one of your posts/comments on the dash, please feel free to reach out to me though! In those cases, I will definitely respond since the like is essentially me reaching out 😊). Truth is, I don’t have enough time or money to play with even a fraction of the Sellers that I’d like to and I also have Sellers that I’ve played with in the past who I’d like to play with again. All of this makes it overwhelming for me at times, and I’ve found the best solution to be limiting my interactions to those I choose to initiate. I mean no offense by it and whether we ever play together or not, I wish you the best of experiences in your kinky ATW journey.

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I’ve been lovingly described as “a kinky, little f**ker” so there are a wide variety of things that can get my tail wagging. Some of them I can’t even really begin to understand or explain myself and occasionally something completely new will set me off. I believe that we are unique individuals and that, apart from our core essence, we are ever-changing beings with regards to our appetites what specifically works for us at a given point in time. The magic of a kink-based community like ours is the near-limitless opportunity it affords us all to play and experiment together.

The fetish that I most strongly identify with, and has been the focus of the vast majority of my play here, I discovered relatively late in life...

I like female feet.

I like the way that they look, from the delicate heels, up the graceful arches and silky soles, over the softly-padded balls all the way to the tips of your cute, little toes. 👣😋

With how they appear from different angles and all the ways that you can move and pose them, they are highly-erotic and a source of endless fascination to me. I also absolutely love the way that they smell.

For all of the wonderful women who have shared your feet with me, thank you for helping me to safely explore some of my kinks and fantasies, completely free from judgement.

About HeWolf72

375 Followers - 19 Following - 26 Badges

Gender: Male

Age: 50+

Joined: 5 years ago

Profile Visits: 30714

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Reposting this with from the marvelous @Kay-x 😍 (Buyers and Sellers are invited to re-post to spread the word and help make a safer community for us all):

Buyers: the change has to happen with you, as the rules won’t change.

We all verify our IDs, so please do it too? You do it for other porn sites. Make us feel safe, please. If all of the good guys do it, we will know who we can trust. It could become the norm’. What a wonderful, safe place that would be!

#BuyerVerificationPlease

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Added a new photo > The wonderful @Elless 🤩😍 is running a really cool comp before she takes a break called #ATWMemoryLane 🖤.

Sellers who enter have a chance at winning one of three prizes by wheelspin, but Buyers are welcome to enter too and help celebrate and look back at our history.

This is actually the picture which I used as my profile pic in my first month here. The reason that it was so short-lived is that the lovely Sellers here helped me to realize that people deserve to be paid for their work, leading me to commission an artist on Fiverr to create the image of the playful wolf pup that you know and love today🐺.

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Five years ago today, I created my account on ATW. They say that time flies when you're having fun and I've had a *whole* bunch of fun in my time here. To all the Sellers and to the Buyers who support Sellers, here's to another kink-filled year!

(and to the Buyers who *don't* support Sellers - Get fucked! Hopefully this will be the year that measures are taken to rid the site of you all for good)

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Did we just witness the first blog get unpinned? The comments were savage, but very good and valid criticisms of the direction the site seems to be taking...

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🐺 A Wolfpup's pet peeves:

Last night, I saw a post by a “buyer” who hasn't bought anything on here explaining that they spent 800£ in one night and asking Sellers what their biggest drain has been. Now, that sort of thing is a peeve in itself, but it’s actually what followed that inspired me to write this piece...

Beyond the fact that 99.999999% of new Buyers who post about spending large amounts of money are full of shit, let's assume that the guy actually spent that much in a single night at some point in his life.
What is the point of then playing along and listing your highest drain amount which was in the thousands of pounds?

To make Sellers who are busting their asses day in and day out feel badly about themselves, that they spent months of grinding away here to earn what you did in a single drain?

To make Buyers who spent as much as they could afford on a drain with their favourite Seller feel inadequate in comparison to yours?

To make Sellers who have only had much smaller drain amounts (or none at all) feel envious that you landed a whale? (and kudos to the Sellers who posted their moderate drain amounts, adding some badly-needed realism, lest anyone think that there are any number of us Buyers waiting to spend thousands on a short experience with little effort required on the Seller’s part).

It honestly boggles the mind and, to use one of my favourite expressions (mostly leveled at showboating “buyers”, but perfectly apt in this case as well):

It’s not the flex that you think it is.

So, the next time you see an open door to brag about your financial exploits, please reconsider. I don’t know who you’re trying to impress, but to me it’s unseemly.

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For anyone who'd like to recognize those special Buyers and Sellers in our lives, the wonderful @kinks_and_curves 🤩 is running a contest:

#Awardsfun

It's another great way to show your appreciation and reward those people who make our days here truly great! 😊

The winners are determined by wheelspin and every entry for a specific person increases their odds of winning.

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I've seen a lot in my nearly 5 years on this site, but seeing a Seller attempt to blackmail a Buyer for real is truly shocking behaviour!

To the many good Sellers on here who:
- respect and cherish the Buyer / Seller relationship...
- allow us to express our innermost desires in safety...
- create an environment of trust and hold that trust as sacred...
Thank you for everything that you do. You are true professionals! 🤩

To the guilty:
One of the tragedies of our existence is how a few misguided people can cause so much damage. You rank amateurs have gone from laughable to dangerous. Receiving a modicum of power, you wield it like a child possessed; revealing yourselves as unworthy of the gift. At the very least I hope that you are prosecuted to the full extent of the law in whatever country you reside in. A more satisfying outcome would be for you to try and pull this shit with the wrong person and find out what true power is....

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Re-posting this wonderful message from @StellasSultryStash . It warms my heart to see the community of Sellers banding together in this manner in true support of eachother 😊

The last few days have been... fascinating.

A discussion about buyers publicly offering sellers a free "chat", a "shoulder to cry on", or a place to "vent" has generated far more conversation than I ever imagined.

My view is simple: I believe that's an inappropriate blurring of professional boundaries.

We're sellers. They're buyers.

When a buyer publicly advertises themselves as an emotional refuge for struggling sellers, I don't think that's healthy for either party. Whilst I'm sure some of those offers are completely genuine, enough of us have been manipulated, had our time wasted, had boundaries pushed, or found kindness used as a route to free attention that we can no longer simply trust the word of a stranger on the internet.

That's not cynicism. It's experience. And judging by the conversations this week, it's an experience shared by many long-standing, experienced sellers.

Of course, if you choose to lean on a buyer, that's entirely your decision. Genuine friendships absolutely can and do develop over time. In my experience, those friendships tend to grow alongside an established buyer-seller relationship, not in place of one.

But if you're a seller who's having a rough day and simply needs someone who understands this industry, I wanted you to know that you have another option before accepting the offer of a well-meaning stranger.

The sellers below have all said they're happy to be that listening ear instead. They're your peers. Your colleagues. People who understand the unique pressures of this job because they're living it too. No expectations. No blurred lines. Just sellers supporting sellers.

@Autumn_Angel
@BronteBeau
@Brownie69
@Cbabiiixxx
@Curvy_Chloe
@CurvyJ_XO
@CurvyScarlett
@Diamondgoods
@Droux
@Elless
@Graciegirl
@Heavenly_Peach
@Heidi203
@Hor0069
@ItsRuby
@JulJulie
@LanaLovall
@Lilith_xoxo
@LillieGrey
@Louisalovesx
@Lovelygirl
@MatureDi
@MissKittyCreme
@MistressVelvetVixen
@MummyGoneBadx
@MzMay
@NessysFinds
@Ordinarygirl
@PetitePrincess2
@PureJoy
@Ruthy
@StellasSultryStash
@Sweet_Scent
@Tastygurl69
@WornbyLunaxox
@Yourfavnursexo

Whether you agreed with my original post or not, I hope one positive thing comes from this: more sellers realise they have a community of peers who understand exactly what this job can be like.

Buyers can show kindness in countless ways: by respecting boundaries, valuing our work, paying fairly, and enjoying the content we create. Fellow sellers can help carry the weight when the job itself becomes heavy.

If you're a seller and would like to add your name to this list, let me know. The more visible our support for one another, the stronger our community becomes.

This place is unlike any other platform because of its community. Let's make sure that community includes looking after one another, so we can all thrive - and be kinky together.

Repost, share, comment... let's get loud.

#SellersSupportingSellers

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Re-posting this beautiful message from @PureJoy (with permission):

I'd like to say a few things 🩷

A beautiful seller friend of mine came under fir-e last night for putting her opinion across to a buyer.
A buyer that posts daily, inviting sellers to chat with him for fre-e.
Her opinion was given with clarity and kindness and in all honesty she said what a lot of us were thinking because these posts do irk a lot of sellers.
She was accused of being anti-kind which could not be further from the truth and just showcased the buyers inability to listen to reason.

My thoughts on this...
Firstly this is a buying & selling site. As a buyer you are here to buy and pay for sellers time.
Sellers are predominantly here to earn money.

Secondly
To the naked eye, daily posts inviting sellers to come and chat for free under the guise of kindness is manipulative behaviour.
Because you're getting a sellers time for free....regardless of your intentions.

Thirdly

This is infact looked upon as a Kink
The "hero complex" (often called "hero syndrome" or "savior complex") it is a psychological phenomenon where an individual feels an overwhelming compulsion to rescue, fix, or take credit for saving others. While driven by good intentions, it often leads to boundary violations, codependency, and unintentionally undermining the self-sufficiency of the people they try to help.

Some sellers will be happy to talk to this type of buyer for free because they don't see the underlying issue.
For those of us that have been in this field for a while, we can see that by doing that we are essentially giving away free kink chat.

Why?
Because Kink doesn't have to be sexual (this might be a surprise to some)
While it is most commonly associated with unconventional sexual preferences or fantasies, many kinks are entirely focused on sensory experiences, psychological dynamics, or emotional play.

I want to make it clear that there is no hat-e or mal-ace with this post.
I'm just giving an established sellers perspective.

Yes Kindness is very important on here and I'm all for it on the daily.

But as this IS a kink.
Time can not be given away for free essentially allowing a buyer to get gratification from it.

Do not blur boundaries because of presumed kindness.
Sellers should think twice before enabling this behaviour even if it seems harmless.
It is still a kink!

This is a kink & fetish site and some kinks are misunderstood.....but they are still kinks nevertheless.

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.

As always
Joy to the world 🌎 🥰

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🐺 A Wolfpup's ponderings:

Earlier this week, there was a post expressing amazement that a Seller was charging $60 for a one day panty wear. The post was removed after a number of Sellers educated him, but I challenge all Sellers to use this as an inspiration to reevaluate your pricing.

The only reason that $60 seems impossibly high to so many people on here is that they normally sell for a relative pittance.

If anybody thinks that $60 is too much to spend for a pair of worn panties, consider what it would cost a person to approach a random woman they find sexually attractive and ask to buy an item of clothing that she wore... *specifically worn* so that it’s full of her scent.

In this age of connectivity and social media, I can *easily* picture it costing me my career, likely a fine and possibly being put on a watch list, not to mention the public attention / shaming that would take place immediately. Also, depending on who witnessed the incident and how they felt, it could even lead to myself being assaulted, possibly hospitalized and maybe even killed.

In that light, would even $150 seem high? Does $60 still seem too high or does $30 now seem ridiculously low?

Bottom line is that it’s all a matter of perspective and Sellers are partially responsible for setting that perceived value through pricing.

On that note, of the things that I dislike the most on here is when Sellers are shamed for charging above market rates. It’s bad enough when Buyers make posts about it, but it’s even worse to see Sellers piling on too.

So, even if nobody is moved to increase their prices, I hope that they’ll be more hesitant to poke fun at the girls who *do* in the future. It only serves the cheapskates when you undervalue yourselves as a norm.

As always, I’m open to polite discussion and debate 😊 #WolfpupsPonderings

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🐺 A Wolfpup's ponderings:

This is perhaps my most controversial post to date. I began writing this months ago after seeing a lad in his 20’s calling out older men who request much younger women. Since then, there have been several other instances of shaming to varying degrees, further inspiring me to share my thoughts. I wrote this piece to offer some perspective to the community in hopes of increasing understanding and offering a mirror that may be helpful.

Before we dive into these tumultuous waters, I feel that a few disclaimers are in order:

1. These are my thoughts. I don’t pretend to speak for all older men or even *any* older men apart from myself. I do, however, believe that my experience is valid and may prove useful in raising awareness.

2. It may be helpful to remember that there is a difference between older men enjoying younger women *too* and enjoying them exclusively. I genuinely enjoy playing with older women as well as younger. As an old perv moving into his mid-50’s, most women I play with are naturally younger than I am, but I also enjoy playing with women who end up being significantly younger than I am.

With that in mind, here I go...

I have always engaged with this marketplace in a simple manner. While there are a multitude of different ways that my interest might be piqued, it boils down to: When I see something I like, I approach the Seller to play.

Ages are not a consideration for me. As long as the Seller is a consenting adult, I find them attractive and they’re offering the sort of things I’m interested in, then it genuinely doesn’t matter to me whether they’re 18 or 68 years old.

But, the real issue isn’t about a fixation with age in general, it’s the perception and gut-reaction at the thought of an older man playing with a much younger women. So, let’s get right into it….

Would a 25+ year age-gap be appropriate in our so-called normal lives? Of course not! But this isn’t a dating site; it’s an anonymous playground where we’re able to fully explore the world of kinks and maybe learn more about ourselves in the process.

So, while I am a self-admitted old perv who occasionally plays with ladies who are half my age or less, I have no illusions and no confusion about what this *is*. You’ll never find me asking to meet up with Sellers or expecting to chat for free. In fact, one could argue that those lines are less likely to get blurred where there*is* a significant age difference involved.

And since these experiences *are* purely fantasy experiences, free from the normal considerations of in-the-flesh encounters, I’m curious at what people perceive the harm is when an older man plays with a young woman on here.

I understand that people find it so distasteful in the normal world that they can’t fathom the idea of someone enjoying the experience as a fantasy role-play. I also get that parents are especially protective and may feel that it’s a threat for men to even entertain such thoughts.

While I’d certainly like people to reconsider how they view older folks that play with younger ladies in this way, I also invite them to consider those ladies in a different manner.

Viewing young women as victims being preyed upon by lecherous old men can be quite condescending. Just because they’re relatively young, that doesn’t mean that they are always h3lpless and in need of protection. Many of those young ladies are completely aware and empowered, having explored their sexual nature for several years (it’s only in our modern age that childhood has been extended so far into adulthood).

Having said all of that, I am not so naive as to believe that the fears of exploitation are unfounded and that all young ladies are equally mature or should be selling on here. I just think that situations should be viewed on a case by case basis and that the common, knee-jerk reaction of kink-shaming doesn’t solve anything and creates an even more toxic environment on the site than we already have.

Not all older buyers playing with younger ladies have bad intentions and not all younger ladies who play with such men are being exploited. Not even close, I’d wager.

Many of us older gents are especially respectful and appreciative. Considering the experience that *we* can provide them with, it seems a shame to insist that they restrict themselves to their own age group, populated by a greater percentage of the immature.

There are two more things I’d like to mention as a matter or experience and perspective. I’m going to choose my words carefully so that they are perfectly clear while causing as little offense as possible:

1. As I’ve aged, I’ve undergone the experience where middle-aged people no longer look “old”. When I was a young lad in my late teens / early 20’s, even people in their mid to late 30’s looked “old” (and people in their 50’s - *my* current age bracket – looked like they were decaying). Now that I’m in my 50’s, I see the beauty in older women, including their sexual natures. There’s nothing controversial or surprising in that and it’s a transition that many of you may have gone through yourselves.

However, what *didn’t* change, is my attraction to younger women. And, while it is entirely inappropriate to *act* on those attractions at my age, I feel no such need to allow those relatively recent societal norms to restrict my activities here. Being able to play with an 18-year old one week and a 50+ year old the next is not something that I could experience in my day-to-day life. Letting natural attraction be my guide is liberating .

2. I think part of the problem of accepting older men who play with younger girls on here is a lack of appreciation of the taboo. There’s something extra naughty about engaging in sexual fantasies with extremely young women. Not all Sellers are comfortable playing around with those concepts, but if proper respect and the right chemistry is involved, it can be extremely fun and fulfilling for both parties involved.

A final note for those who have made it this far without blocking me:

To me, it’s not necessary that we all agree, but the way that we handle our disagreements and treat different points of view is *extremely* important to me.

It’s been said in the past “Don’t yuk another’s yum” and that is something that I take *very* seriously. There are several goods and services offered on here that I simply don’t understand. Rather than turning me on, they turn my stomach, but I wouldn’t *dream* of making someone feel ashamed for enjoying that. I simply keep my mouth shut and recognize that the Buyers and Sellers indulging in it have their own thing going on that is none of my business and they don’t *need* my input on the matter.

In closing, I’d ask you to consider extending that same courtesy to taboo play and, in particular, to play between consenting adults of widely differing ages.

I hope that what I’ve said provokes some thought without striking too deep a nerve. I’ve tried to express my thoughts and feelings on the matter without being overly critical but not at the cost of clarity.

As always, I’m open to polite discussion and debate 😊 #WolfpupsPonderings

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🐺 A Wolfpup's PSAs:

As a Buyer who finds auctions to be an interesting addition (and have bid on them), I have some suggestions for Sellers listing items there:

1. Please set a sensible starting bid
What's the point of having us Buyers outbid eachother with dollar-store prices?

2. For the love of all things kink, please set a reserve price.
I'm sorry, but any Seller who's willing to take anything doesn't deserve anything IMO.

This marketplace is undervalued enough without making auctions a race to the bottom as well.

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So, another cool thing with auctions is how quickly Admin is fixing issues that are being reported to them. For instance, Sellers no longer have to worry about Buyers they have bl0cked participating in their auctions.

One Seller who has bl0cked me ran an auction and I don't even remember *seeing* it while it was active. It shows now as an ended auction but, even then, when I go to click on it, rather than showing me the Seller's Profile pic and bid history as it normally would, it gives the error message "This auction is unavailable"

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Some thoughts on auctions from this Buyer's perspective:

On the auction page, I had the good fortune of there being two Sellers I would especially like to play with *and* one of them putting an item up for auction that I'm interested in too (I'm not sure how often the stars will align like that in the future, but I think the fact that it has already done so at launch is a very good sign).

Some pleasant surprises:

I love how you can bid anonymously to avoid potential drama from other Sellers or from Buyers when you're in a bidding war.

I love how you're automatically refunded every time you're outbid, so you get to start completely fresh each time when deciding whether to up the bid again (IMO that's safer and psychologically much better than having the money held and trying to decide whether or not to add more to it)

So, while there are still definitely other things I'd like to see added to or changed on the site, this one is turning out to be better than I thought it would be and may have a real place here IMO 🤔.

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I've struggled with the "Saved For Later" list for ages. At one point I was putting the listings into a spreadsheet to be able to manage and keep track of them better, but then I got lazy and started doing it the normal way again. This resulted in a new discovery for me!

Once the "Saved For Later" list gets over 500 items, it starts to break down. At one point, it was only saving half the listings I bookmarked and now, at 532, it's not saving any of them.

There are far too many beautiful ladies on here with tempting listings and I don't have nearly enough time or money. Granted, it's a nice problem to have, but fuck *me* does it make things challenging! 😂😂🤣🤣

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I didn't expect auctions to have a huge uptake, but I *am* a bit surprised that not a single auction has taken place since the announcement. Does anyone have, or know anyone who has, an auction request going through the process? 🤔

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🐺 A Wolfpup's ponderings:

Beyond the kinks we’re exploring, we sometimes get a very true sense of the person behind the screen. One of the greatest distinctions we make, for both Buyers *and* Sellers, is how much that person actually cares for us as individuals rather than viewing us as a kink-dispenser (Sellers) or walking wallet (Buyers).

There are varying degrees, of course, and the dehumanization isn’t always explicit or intentional. It still stings any time we’re made to feel disposable and I’d like to share a study in contrasts today since I think it’s interesting and makes the point well.

Seller 1 :

This Seller and I really hit it off (in my reviews, she is the Deleted User whose review begins “Everything takes a moment with this gentleman, including the process of writing this review, because he IS the moment, and you certainly feel it when you are fortunate to lure him in! 🫠😉 “). The conversation was great as was the quality of her content. We also seemed to share an appreciation and desire for deeper play and I had already planned on placing another order with her.

However that was not to be, as she deleted her account mere weeks afterwards. Her goodbye post read:

“Thank you for allowing this freeing, safe space to explore my kinks, fetishes and sexual journey- I seriously have learned so much about myself, it’s strengthened and reassured me that there is seriously a space for a lot if only you see and live life with an open mind 🙇‍♀️”

So far, so good, but then she goes on to say:

“To my sellers alike - you girls and guys have encouraged and never gave me a dull moment … to everyone - because I enjoy being dramatic (obvs - it’s me!) THANK YOU FOR ACCEPTING ME INTO THIS COMMUNITY…. I will miss you all but for now, I know I have the real world of sex and swingers parties to indulge in with my hubby…!”

So, in her case, following her first Hot Wife experience the rest of us became chopped liver practically overnight, devaluing what we experienced together as less “real” just because we didn’t exchange body fluids 🙄🙄🙄

Seller 2:

This Seller also had her first Hot Wife experience while I was happily playing with her and planning another order.

The difference?

Rather than casting me aside and treating our experiences as less real, she continued to entertain my fantasies with as much enthusiasm as ever!

Make no mistake, she *is* having fun as a Hot Wife; like a *lot* of fun! 😈 (she’s gone on to do another session and is planning yet *another* one in the near future). However, no matter how much fun she has with that, she still continues to enjoy and value what *we* have. As a matter of fact, we have already incorporated her new experiences into *our* play a couple of times, making those virtual fantasies hit even harder and in different fun ways for us both!

I hope that this comparison has been an enjoyable and enlightening read, giving a little glimpse into my experience as a Buyer. The different way those two Sellers treated me following *their* new experiences makes *all* the difference to me. Bottom line is that nobody likes to feel used and discarded after serving their purpose, or for their needs and experiences to be viewed as lesser. I know that Sellers feel that pain a lot, so it may be reassuring to know that there are Buyers who can empathize as well.

One final point: Being slighted like this is one of those things where it only bothers those of us who feel deeply and value our connections. So, while people are free to go about their lives and business how they wish, leaving things like Seller 1 did is much more destructive to our community than it seems to be on the surface.

And that Seller 2, who is capable of being a Hot Wife while continuing to fulfill our fantasies on here? @BrookesBottoms – Thank you for entertaining this old perv’s fantasies for nearly 5 years and not letting your in-the-flesh experiences diminish ours in any way! 😍

As always, I’m open to polite discussion and debate 😊 #WolfpupsPonderings

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🐺 A Wolfpup's ponderings:

There are few things more satisfying for Buyers *and* Sellers than an ongoing relationship. Being a regular means that there’s the opportunity to explore your fetishes with a person you’re familiar with, building on everything that came before in a depth that simply isn’t possible on a one-off transaction.

Overtime you might also grow to know eachother in more personal ways and chat about all manner of things not related to kink at all. When Buyers and Sellers view eachother as multi-faceted beings with hopes, dreams and interests beyond our kinks, it’s a truly beautiful thing and can develop into true friendship.

This familiarity, however, is a mixed blessing.

While we’re enjoying what is essentially a Girlfriend Experience, we’d do well to remind ourselves of the primary difference between Buyers and Sellers.

Sellers pay to be here. At a *minimum* they pay 7 times what our completely optional Premium Buyer membership costs and that’s just for the “privilege” of messaging us Buyers and setting up orders (if they opt for Diamond to have access to the additional features, it’s double that). And, while the financial difference is significant, it pales in comparison to the demands on their time.

Where *we* can choose how much time to spend on here as well as the actual time that we make contact, Sellers don’t enjoy that luxury.

I encourage every Buyer to imagine what it would be like to receive messages from random people throughout your day making all manner of inquiries, some quite extensive. How would you determine how much of your time to invest in them and whether or not they were sincerely interested?

And after spending hours at this hit or miss business, how would you feel if someone wanted to chat with you just because they’d placed orders with you in the past; as if you had limitless time like a bored retiree sitting by the phone instead of an attractive Seller with interested Buyers lined up out the door?

Buyers – Please don’t lose sight of the fact that we are Buyers. Sellers can become friends to us, but they should remain as friends that we pay. Although the prudish and delusional may bristle at the comparison – this *is* sex work. It is unreasonable to make demands on their time beyond what we’ve paid them for. Don’t make things awkward for them by taking advantage of the fact that they enjoy playing with you and are hesitant to draw the line.

There is no need to take advantage when there are so many simple options to make things right and show that you value their time as well as your friendship.

If your preferred Seller offers a listing for extended communication, then it should be a no-brainer. Pay her the monthly fee and chat away. If they don’t have such a listing, consider sending them a tip for their time when you chat. Look at it as a coffee date (and if you are reluctant to spend even the price of a cup of coffee to chat with a gorgeous woman who entertains your kinks on here, ask yourself why that is).

As always, I’m open to polite discussion and debate 😊 #WolfpupsPonderings

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I'm still processing the info that a *complete* AI generation was allowed on here through a verified account. Making things even *more* ridiculous, the Seller looked *nothing* like her creation 🤯🤯🤯.

IMO, all profiles should be screened and audited regularly to make sure the Sellers are real. Otherwise, the site stands to attract less ethical sorts here who will steal sales from real Sellers and use it to fund their purchases.

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HeWolf72

In a market where nobody bats an eye at £15 panties (and £50 is seen as *impossibly* high); where we Buyers are spoiled for choice having *thousands* of Sellers to choose from on any given day, each with dozens of listings (I currently have 480 listings Saved For Later), I'm not sure where auctions will fit in here.

While I like the idea of Sellers potentially being able to increase visibility and generate the maximum amount of excitement and payment for their items, I don't think the market is in any shape to fulfill that ideal.

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For the Love of Custom Fetish Items (a Buyer’s Perspective)

Roughly a decade ago, I bought a pair of socks through another website. There was no direct contact with the person doing the wear, which made for a cold, impersonal...

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